I find it almost comical how hard everyone works to assure themselves and others that "it wasn't sexual" when describing their nude experiences with dad or mom or siblings or whoever. We were always nude together but it wasn't sexual. We showered together but it wasn't sexual. We slept together naked but it wasn't sexual. We blah blah blah together but it wasn't sexual. We are sexual beings. Sex is a biological imperative and it's hardwired into our DNA. Nearly everything we do has a sexual component to it.... emotionally, intellectually, physically or all the above. AND IT'S OK! There is nothing wrong or dirty about sexual interactions unless they are forced or violent or hurtful. And I don't mean that we all should be out humping parents or siblings or neighbors or the family pet. But working so hard to INSIST that there are NO sexual interests or curiosities or desires behind our behaviors is just pointless. Our behaviors are what they are and speak for themselves. Just enjoy what we have and stop overthinking it.
I couldn't agree more! Well said



