Human, not an object
I'm a Human, not an object.
I'm am Someone, not something for you to collect.
I'm Not interested in being hit on, even if you think that's ok in your book.
I'm Not interested in hearing comments about my body, or how you think I look.
I'm a person with feelings, same as you.
So treat me with respect, and with respect you get treated too.
I'm a Human, not an object.I'm am Someone, not something for you to collect.I'm Not interested in being hit on, even if you think that's ok in your book.I'm Not interested in hearing comments about my body, or how you think I look.I'm a person with feelings, same as you.So treat me with respect, and with respect you get treated too.
Hear! Hear! Sorry you are receiving the negative parts of our lifestyle. Your fight is NOT unwarranted nor ignored (except by idiots). Thanks for being here.
Your post hits right in the feels.Exactly my thoughts. I really shouldnt feel paranoid and apprehensive (what a word btw lol) to have my nude image as a profile picture on a nudist site, yes I feel like I'm walking on eggshells the whole time, I really shouldnt have to feel this way. I've been known to block people to 'compliment' on my body. I'm not nude for your entertainment, I am a nudist. Making someone feel worthless is very easy when people react like they never seen a nude person (on a nudist site)
One of the reasons I have often thought about leaving myself. If they can't treat you as a person, as a human being with feelings, is it still worth it to be a member here? There are a lot, and I mean A LOT, of jerks here who think they can treat you any way they want to. Without the slightest respect. Luckily there are also some very great people here who make it worth continue being a member.
Never have liked people that have no respect for others whether it be man or woman. I can only imagine what you women go through on here other than what you post or comment about. I would totally understand if you left the site but hope that you stay!!!!
and to be honest sometimes it really bring out the worse in me as a person, the moment you get too jaded to be immidiately suspect of someone coming on to you. Which really happens alot and it did change my character someone of being less welcoming than I used to be. I have this thing mostly against people from my own country, because they immidiately want to date you or go to resorts with you, ask for your social media or telephone, and try to make you feel guilty/ or be a horrible person when you decline their offers. "you must be fake then" will of course be used. So that is one of the reasons I'm extremely picky and maybe paranoid in a way towards new people. I used to be introvert way before I even considered nudism, and that kinda came back to me. its hard to find a balance of judgement when it comes to other people. Not only men are doing it either, some of the women are just as bad. Seems the box with says 'bisexual' in my profile stirs the idea by others that I'm all into a perverse sexual free for all or something. I myself must really be careful that I dont turn to the darkside, with my mostly optimistic personality, but being on guard the whole time does bring out some deeply hidden anger within myself, and then i'm not afraid to lash out. I want to be here and enjoy this community too, and I simply will not stand by and see how others ruin it. I was in earlier tonight and some dude started immidiately talking about his genitals, so i basically said *f*** you and blocked him. wow im writing a whole blog in here now it seems lol. dunno kinda had to vent. *bad day*
It's ok to be extremely picky. I'm like that too.
Sad to say, but I have yet to meet someone here from my country who I would not mind meeting in real life.
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