It's like political correctness!All crap! Just be free to be yourself!Society today is soooooo screwed up!
And we're not buying it! Guys hanging out naked are exactly that: guys hanging out naked. Camaraderie is no more defined by orientation than dominant handedness.
Nonetheless, keep an eye out for those left-handers, I hear they can be pretty perverse and their wiring almost makes them another species!
Hi all - i was just wondering as a straight lad that enjoys nude male company - am i the only one? Also if im not do you ever get lads getting the wrong idea when you say you want to hang out naked with them? I just enjoy the bonding from being naked with a couple of nudist pals.
Believe it or not, just as hard on the gay side as well. I enjoy private bonding with play but that's a planned, consensual thing that isn't really about nudism... and really just enjoy hanging out nude with other men, don't care about orientation in that setting because it's just men being social and relaxed, which all men need, regardless.
Most times I have gone to or hosted for purely social nudism, even with clear discussion beforehand, it's not at all what was advertised (again, no judgment just not what I was going for and the host should have been honest), hosting, I've had guys assume because I am gay that they can just decide to do what they want... or that I don't really mean naturist when I say naturist.
It boils down to communication and being clear about what it is you are looking for, taking the time to get to know one or two nudist buds well before say, watching a game drinking beer/eating pizza and talking trash (I did this the once at home and it was surprisingly way more fun than I imagined and it was just social... two hours though and it was over.
My advice, as counterintuitive as it is, is to not worry about orientation and focus on whether the bloke is honest, openly a nudist, clear on boundaries and upfront about what they are looking for in terms of social bonding. Men who won't talk about it at all or who are evasive or get huffy that's usually a sign they are either not ready or upfront. I've had several so called straight guys hit me up on the side when that was off the table and it just ends the friendship. Straight nudists get hounded by some gay dudes too.
If you have a nude volleyball, rugby or other sports team that's the best way as long as it's mixed league naturist rules... there are a couple here but they are too good for me to join as I am shite at both sports.
Can't speak for anyone else. Hanging out naked to hang out with other nudists is just that. It's a chance to feel comfortable around other like minded people. Sexual orientation shouldn't be an issue. Really, shouldn't even matter what the gender of the person. If it's just for nudist fun (not sex) then none of that should make any difference.
I'm a straight guy, but have dabbled a bit on the bi, mainly just to see what it felt like to hold a big cock. :)
Seriously though, I've met 4 people from TN, 3 I met naked the 4th was clothed, 2 were straight and 2 gay, 1 of the gay guys was the clothed meeting, met them all at my flat before I moved. I didn't get on with one of the gay guys and one of the straight guys so didn't meet them again, the other gay guy I still chat with on TN but we haven't met again. The other straight guy I met with a few more times, he came to my flat and we'd have a chat and a coffee, but we always ended up watching some porn and jerking off, not that I have a problem with that, I like jerking off. I have to admit I did like doing it with someone else and have always thought I would love to join a jerk circle, wondering what it would feel like jerking off in a group.
But I'm all for meeting up as a group and doing some activity or other. But it would have to be localish, not going to drive all the way to Cardiff. ;)
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