So many men feel like that. And I dont know any man who isnt glad he has nude times with his dad.
Interestingly, medical science agrees, and hospitals all over the world now recommend Skinbonding for fathers of newborns. Research has shown that this helps the babies to thrive as well as forging better bonds. Premature babies as well as babies born by c-section especially need that skin to skin bonding immediately with their fathers.
So guys, we arent wrong. Nude bonding IS the best for everyone and for their health and wellbeing. And yes, lots if nude cuddles too!My dad is not into nudism. But i recalled that i saw him naked when i was taking shower with him at age of 4-5. I wish he would have spent more naked time with me.
My step-dad was very prudish, he did not like to see me nude, even as a small child. Regarding the needs of a young teen and my changing body, he just refused to discuss it. However, I spent a summer with my grandparents one year. This was his parents. They owned a farm and the house was in the middle of a forest. They slept in separate rooms. I was using the upstairs attic bedroom. I noticed that gramps would quite often go sit out on the porch around 1AM, Then I realized he was naked, so I started trying to find the best spot to sneak a peak, especially after I realized that he was playing with his cock.
One night, as I was peaking around the stairwell corner, he calmly says: "Instead of hiding and trying to look, come on out, have a seat and join me. " As I sat down in the chair next to him I saw that he was nude and his cock was soft. As he was fixing his pipe he calmly said that if I would be more comfortable it was okay to take my shorts off. Which I did, but my cock sprang up hard as a rock. He just looked at it, said it was a respectable size and that getting hard often was normal for my age. And we sat and talked for an hour then I went to bed. We sat together on the porch for a couple of nights. One night he got hard while talking. He explained that masturbation had many uses and that it was perfectly normal. I did not know about it so we chatted and he explained. I left at the end of summer, much more confident and relaxed about myself. We had a close friendship until he died years later. Wish it had been my step-dad.
I never had the chance to know my grandfathers. And my dad was working at night a lot (restaurant and bar).
As for my father in law he never wanted to go naked like the other male parents. Only my brothers were there to see naked.
But I wish I could have been naked with them ! Maybe thats why I do have a lot of older male friends, that I can be naked with. They have taught me many things that are still enjoyable to me still. But I also try to help the younger guys to relax and enjoy being free. The future is important !
That's how a dad/son relationship should be. If a dad can't explain all those things to his son and the son can't trust that he can to to his dad with questions about any of those things about how his body works and things he'll need to know about life and enjoying his life, who can he turn to? It's great to be that secure and close and safe to be able to be there and be a good dad in that role.
We weren't nudists per se, but we didn't have a/c in our house until I was 11 years old and we lived in Texas so sleeping nude on top of the covers with a box fan blowing on you was the norm. Saw my dad plenty of times and would often crawl up in the bed and cuddle (totally non sexual!). Just being naked with nothing between us and being held in his arms while we slept made me feel loved and accepted. As I got a little older my mother would start yelling at us so that eventually stopped. Still, after bailing hay or working on fences in the summer we'd go to this creek on our property that was partially dammed up so it made a decent sized pool off water that was about 4 feet deep. We'd go skinny dipping there a lot up through all my teen years. Laying in the sun, taking naps, talking about life and stuff and giving me the talk out there...running around acting like kids after we had a few beers--sometimes with boners and not caring.
I'd squat in the water and beat off, but he'd just laugh at me when he realized what I was doing and go back to swimming or laying on the ground by the water. Never joined me, but I'm not going to lie there's a part of me that wished he had. I enjoy the intimacy and connection you get when bating with a bud and always wanted to experience that with him, but that's ok because he was still amazing and open and honest about so much with me out there that I'm grateful.
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