My ex-wife would go topless but never nude. She didn't like people being able to see her most private area. At home she would go nude but just with me. I just accepted and respected her wishes.
My wife is the one that first introduced me to the idea. It started with sleeping nude and before you knew it, I was cooking naked and stayed that way when our kids came out for breakfast. The secret was out. We have been naked ever since.
My wife is the one that first introduced me to the idea. It started with sleeping nude and before you knew it, I was cooking naked and stayed that way when our kids came out for breakfast. The secret was out. We have been naked ever since.
How old were your kids when you started?
Did they have any problems adjusting to you being nude around the house?
My wife went to a C/O resort a few times with me. She was as naked as I was. At home, we sleep naked and at times, when weather permits, are evn outside naked. We live in a national forest, therefore, very few neighbors. After a few times at the resort, she decides that too many old men are gawking at her. I saw the writing on the wall. Sure as shit, she tells me she doesn't want to be nakd there anymore. The atmosphere at home doesn't change. I tryed to explain to her that those old men ( I'm one ) are not just looking at her but all people, male and female. Doesn't make a difference. At the resort, she'll take a shower naked ( comunnal room ) and wrap a towel around her for the short walk to the hot tub or pool. Then she'll drop the towel and get in the water. In the camper or around it outside, she'll go naked. She has a nice body for a 64yr old lady.
After a few times at the resort, she decides that too many old men are gawking at her. I saw the writing on the wall.
Sometimes you've got to "switch it up", or "reboot."
My wife and I started out at two C/O resorts. She'd be nude in the pool area, but covered any other time; much like many other people there.
She eventually confessed that she often felt that some people were just "waiting/hoping to see her naked"; or "catch a peek", as she wore loose fitting short cover-ups.
We ended up going to a couple of "nudity-expected" venues; and she realized she no longer felt that way. The reason why: most everyone was nude, so she felt comfortable staying naked herself. And she no longer felt that anyone was paying any "special" attention to her, since she kinda "blended in" with everyone else.
It was all psychological, of course; as it didn't seem to me that people were at the C/O resort were focused on her. Or maybe they were just wondering if she was uncomfortable with nudity.
Unfortunately, not everyone gets to pick a resort. Or have a wife willing to explore different venues.
We've met some women/wives that fall into this category but certainly not the majority. When you visit nude places, clubs/resorts, the beach, gatherings, to name a few, you meet others, and they share their stories. Initially, some women admit that they got into nudism because of their husband. They were hesitant, reluctant and didn't understand the point of sharing their nakedness with strangers. After several visits, they began to realize what the true meaning of nudism/naturism and being naked whenever they could, meant. They found comfort and freedom in it and they eventually became nudists/naturists themselves.
We did find a number of women, a close nudist friend was one of them, that limit their exposure to others. This friend, like the others we talked with, will visit clubs/resorts, beaches with close friends but won't do it as a couple without someone they know. They prefer not to go to functions, dances, large gatherings and prefer to keep their nudist circle small and close.
If a woman is being forced to be a nudist by her husband or partner, she needs to set the record straight with that person or find someone else to be with. This lifestyle should not be forced on anyone. I feel if guys find that their wives/partners are not interested at all in going nude, discussing nudism or remotely interested in visiting a nude place, those guys need to move on and find something to do that includes both of you and confine your nudism to your home and private backyards. They need to get on with life and stop trying to make your wife/partner something they are not.
We've met some women/wives that fall into this category but certainly not the majority. When you visit nude places, clubs/resorts, the beach, gatherings, to name a few, you meet others, and they share their stories. Initially, some women admit that they got into nudism because of their husband. They were hesitant, reluctant and didn't understand the point of sharing their nakedness with strangers. After several visits, they began to realize what the true meaning of nudism/naturism and being naked whenever they could, meant. They found comfort and freedom in it and they eventually became nudists/naturists themselves.We did find a number of women, a close nudist friend was one of them, that limit their exposure to others. This friend, like the others we talked with, will visit clubs/resorts, beaches with close friends but won't do it as a couple without someone they know. They prefer not to go to functions, dances, large gatherings and prefer to keep their nudist circle small and close.If a woman is being forced to be a nudist by her husband or partner, she needs to set the record straight with that person or find someone else to be with. This lifestyle should not be forced on anyone. I feel if guys find that their wives/partners are not interested at all in going nude, discussing nudism or remotely interested in visiting a nude place, those guys need to move on and find something to do that includes both of you and confine your nudism to your home and private backyards. They need to get on with life and stop trying to make your wife/partner something they are not.
I agree with most of what you say.
However, my wife doesn't like the beach and I do, so I usually go to a clothing optional beach and she doesn't object. There are probably other men in a similar situation.
My late wife was not a nudist as such but she would be topless at the beach whenever we went to a nude beach. She did get nude a few times but then wanted sex at the beach, she more associated full nudity with sex and I think quite a few women think the same or similarly. She would be topless and we had some funny experiences that I have posted about here. But she went to CO beaches because of me.
I have taken a few other women, prior to marriage and after I became a widower. It seems to me from my experiences full nudity is something men are generally more comfortable with from change rooms and open showers. I have anew partner and she is also not a nudist but has asked me a few questions about it. She is interested and made some bets she lost saying she will go naked is whatever place if she loses, she did and I remind her every now and then about paying up her bets, we will see.
My point is that many women would be nudists or go nude for their husband / partner. Nudity is not a state of dress / undress women seem to be as keen on as men. Many seem to get to like it and learn that there are not many catwalk models at the beach which I think is a healthy thing to learn.
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