Body parts
Ok, this topic will be very short, I promise.
So we have here at least one self-declared butt man and one breasts man. I am mostly a breasts woman myself, this is the body part I enjoy seeing the most in a woman.
But what do I enjoy looking at when seeing a naked man? The answer further down.
So, guys suppose you have the opportunity to look for ten seconds from any angle you want at the body of a member of your preferred sex/gender. As most members of this "ladies' club" are straight males, I'll formulate the question referring to the body of a woman, but feel free to refer to that of a man if this is your sexual preference.
So ten seconds, face excluded. Why excluding the face? Because otherwise you will all go "five seconds at the eyes, three at the mouth, two at the rest of the body". Men are liars. Imagine that you can make that person (woman, in your case) turn anyway you want to look at her for all of ten seconds. Just turn, ok? Not bend over, spread the legs etc.
And here are my answers: I prefer to look at a naked woman rather than at a naked man, although I have a (slight) preference for sex with men. Seeing a nice woman for ten seconds will make me look for two seconds at her general body shape from the front, one from the back, two at her butt, one at her legs and four at her breasts.
What about seeing a man? Unless he is quite spectacular, I don't think I would insist to look at him for all of ten seconds, to be honest. Five, maybe six. But fine, let's say ten. Regular 35 yo dude in good shape? Two seconds general shape front, two general shape back, two the butt and four his family jewels. A very fit or muscular guy? Less focus on his junk and more on his chest and shoulders. Out of shape guy? Mostly or exclusively his bouquet, but ten seconds will be long. I'll sacrifice however, I know how much you guys like us to look at your pride and joy.
So what about you? You can look at my naked body for ten seconds from any angle. What will you look at and for how long?
Man:
- Bits: a 'polite' glance only, even if my short-sightedness compromises the opportunity to take in the details. Perhaps I'll allow myself a longer look if there's some decoration there, after all, no-one who wears something there is likely to mind a little extra examination.
- Face: I'll be looking for a smile or other acknowledgement. Perhaps there's an opportunity for a greeting or a comment on the weather or some-such. Depending on the response, this may be a few seconds or longer. While at this stage I may also be taking in the...
- Physique: impressive is impressive. Yeah, we're not all young and ripped, but taking care of oneself at any age is worthy of admiration in my opinion.
Woman: I'm a little paranoid about being 'caught' staring, so it's only the quick polite all-over glance to take in whatever details I might discern. Then it's straight to the face in a similar way to men, but I have lower expectations about getting an acknowledgement in response. Much more delightful when I do, however, as a typical heterosexual who expects to perhaps be treated as invisible or even unwanted in terms of presence. One difference is, once passed, I am likely to steal a glance back if I think I can get away with it, but I often don't.
Flora: I like to think I'd recognise you (and would be conscious if I'm in a space you might frequent such as the baths), so I might dare to take in the reality after much opportunity in terms of screen viewing. I'd probably fail at the polite glance. But where to look? Ideally I'd be able to admire your eyes as we chat upon meeting face-to-face for the first time, but I'm sure you'll catch my vision wandering without much effort. And I'm sure the wandering vision shall be all over you rather than just one region.
Great topic Flora...
One size (breakdown of time per area, doesn't fit all) also depends if i know them, even vaguely or from photos.
A well cared for female body, (no age restriction) 2 or 3 seconds overall shape, 2 seconds boobs, 1 - 3 seconds belly and lady bits, (1 if full bush, longer for wax/shave area) 2 seconds legs, am fond of nice legs... only leaving 2 to 5 seconds on the back and butt.. (btw, its not just the butt I like, just feel shouldn't be forgotten!!)
Say someone I know at least from photos... Flora for example.... here goes... 4 second front view and overall shape, 5 seconds on boobs, 5 seconds for nipples, 6 seconds on belly, 8 seconds on lady bits, 5 seconds legs, 4 seconds shoulders, 3 seconds small of your back and 6 seconds on butt. Oh dear! That's more than 10 seconds total, but lovely it would be!!
Richie, never good with time keeping! xx
A healthy person is an attractive person. A healthy person's body parts are part of the 'package' and can range from small to nice! My interest is usually sparked by an admiration of this person's overall appearance, clothed or unclothed, especially those over 40 who have been able to beat back the aging demons.
I surmise most humans are never completely satisfied with their body parts, constantly comparing themselves to the perfect forms fed to us by the media. Yes, there are some spectacular 19-year-olds with ideal skin and form, but for now, my 10 seconds is better spent admiring beautiful forms such as yours, whether small or 'nice.'
I was thinking about this as if at an art gallery showing for nude art exhibits. What would you be interested in to look at ?
I not sure what would I be looking at for more than the other parts of the body. Being that the body as an art form I would to think I would look at the overall body. Not just one part ! Then comes the question of how close to the body parts you are allowed. I mean thats the whole reason for looking at the nude body.
Flora if we could get you up on a pedestal and be allowed to enjoy the view in person for ten seconds.
Yes your bodies form then your breasts and last your butt. Even amount of time for each. I kind of like the idea of you up on that pedestal and the pedestal turning.
But really are we allowed to look at someone for sexual reasons or just to enjoy the general nude form. Lets say the difference of a erotic art show to a nude art show
While the human body, make or female, are remarkably made and individual as the day is long Id admire the entire form for 3-4 seconds then focus, truly, on the eyes. They are the windows to our soul and much can be learned about us through our eyes.
So your men are liars statement is both untrue and offensive. Pound rocks.
If we are only talking body parts I think I admire a nicely shaped bum but great legs get my attention most. My late wife had large boobs, (she wanted a reduction before cancer was diagnosed) but that was not what attracted me her, in a physical sense she had a nice butt, albeit small but she had great legs. My new partner has small boobs (wants a boob job so clothes fit better) has a really nice bum and she has great legs.
My SIL was surprised when she noticed the differences in boobs and said she thought I liked big boobs, but I am actually a leg and butt admirer.
While the human body, make or female, are remarkably made and individual as the day is long Id admire the entire form for 3-4 seconds then focus, truly, on the eyes. They are the windows to our soul and much can be learned about us through our eyes.So your men are liars statement is both untrue and offensive. Pound rocks.
If you read the test. The face was taken off the table to look at...keep up
I prefer when people contribute off topic than when they don't contribute at all. But I should have said that I (or whoever the lady is, but I think it's easier to imagine the scene and answer if the person you imagine is someone you know) am wearing a hat and big shades which hide most of my face.