My da and I swam every morning from my 2nd birthday until I was 24. So everyday in the locker room, in the sauna, and skinny dipping at home,Dad liked to hang out in the locker room and talk to anybody. I was very comfortable with my dad. We lived on lots of land so very private. Dad encouraged all of my friends ad their dads to come and swim and hang out nude on the ranch. We had a big pool,lake, and a stream to use.
My dad and I were nudists growing up. My mom wasn't shy about being seen nude, she just didn't walk around the house like we did. I started showering with my dad when I was 3 and continued until I went to college. Random erections were common, and considered normal and natural. Masturbating was considered normal and healthy. Going through puberty I had lots of questions and he was always open to talk about anything and everything. Nudity created a life-long bond between us
I talk to a lot of men and most of them are surprised when I tell them that I used to shower with my dad and that we often see each other naked. It is also common for us to talk about our bodies. He showed me his frenulum and told me about it. I was circumcised, then had a vasectomy, and during both surgeries he followed my recovery. The nudity and the dialogue between father and son should be natural, but unfortunately it is not.
I suspect this topic has as many answers as there are fathers & sons; each one is probably a little different. Though personally, I never showered with my Dad and don't know of anyone who did. He was part of the WWII crew and told me they gang showered & slept nude in the barracks so that was the norm. A quick check of the internet came up with this comment, "Dr. Wendy Lane, who works at the University of Maryland C h i l d r e ns Hospital, said it can actually be beneficial for ch il dr en to rinse off with their parents during their early years but the practice should stop around the age of 5.". This particular statement is probably a base line and nothing more. Perhaps the most telling part was later on when the article mentioned that it ... should stop whenever anyone gets uncomfortable. As I was part of the 70s generation, nude gang showers in both junior & senior high was the norm. After the initial shock in 7th grade, it was just something you did. Concerning my own ch il dren and gr and ch ild ren, I bathed them all. My own until about the age of 5 and the others as it is needed. Does this sound like you other folks out there?
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