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I think most kids are natural nudist, they just get told starting at young age that being naked and the body is bad or dirty, then they grow up with a negative self body image....so sad. Glad your boys are just the opposite. Hope they don't grow out of that.

This is so very true. Weve raised our two sons naturist and with only positive attitudes to their male bodies and nature.
Illogical shame is a harmful learnt behaviour and we decided that we would never teach that to our sons. So our naturist and shame free family life meant that the boys always felt comfortable and confident naked with us and our friends and so they stayed naturist and free right through all the different stages of development and never had any negative attitudes or stresses about their bodies etc etc. And that was a joy for us all.

And of course people who dont have negative feelings about themselves and their own bodies, feelings and sexuality etc tend to also have more positive attitudes to everyone else too! So this approach helps to produce happy, well-rounded people when those kids grow up.

Its such a terrible thing to teach kids shame and fear rather than a sense of celebrating their bodies and feeling proud and happy to be nude.

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I think most kids are natural nudist, they just get told starting at young age that being naked and the body is bad or dirty, then they grow up with a negative self body image....so sad. Glad your boys are just the opposite. Hope they don't grow out of that.

This is so very true. Weve raised our two sons naturist and with only positive attitudes to their male bodies and nature.
Illogical shame is a harmful learnt behaviour and we decided that we would never teach that to our sons. So our naturist and shame free family life meant that the boys always felt comfortable and confident naked with us and our friends and so they stayed naturist and free right through all the different stages of development and never had any negative attitudes or stresses about their bodies etc etc. And that was a joy for us all.

And of course people who dont have negative feelings about themselves and their own bodies, feelings and sexuality etc tend to also have more positive attitudes to everyone else too! So this approach helps to produce happy, well-rounded people when those kids grow up.

Its such a terrible thing to teach kids shame and fear rather than a sense of celebrating their bodies and feeling proud and happy to be nude.

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People continue to ask me what it's like for them. Honestly, it's not a thing. Being nude or clothed is inconsequential to their lives each day. Right now it is 7AM on a Sunday morning and I and one of the boys are hanging around nude while another is wearing shorts. They're both wrapped up in eating breakfast and watching morning shows anxious to go into the pool today (it rained overnight). Nothing else is a thought. That's the way it should be.

I think most kids are natural nudist, they just get told starting at young age that being naked and the body is bad or dirty, then they grow up with a negative self body image....so sad. Glad your boys are just the opposite. Hope they don't grow out of that.This is so very true. Weve raised our two sons naturist and with only positive attitudes to their male bodies and nature.Illogical shame is a harmful learnt behaviour and we decided that we would never teach that to our sons. So our naturist and shame free family life meant that the boys always felt comfortable and confident naked with us and our friends and so they stayed naturist and free right through all the different stages of development and never had any negative attitudes or stresses about their bodies etc etc. And that was a joy for us all.And of course people who dont have negative feelings about themselves and their own bodies, feelings and sexuality etc tend to also have more positive attitudes to everyone else too! So this approach helps to produce happy, well-rounded people when those kids grow up.Its such a terrible thing to teach kids shame and fear rather than a sense of celebrating their bodies and feeling proud and happy to be nude.

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That's how it should be.

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People continue to ask me what it's like for them. Honestly, it's not a thing. Being nude or clothed is inconsequential to their lives each day. Right now it is 7AM on a Sunday morning and I and one of the boys are hanging around nude while another is wearing shorts. They're both wrapped up in eating breakfast and watching morning shows anxious to go into the pool today (it rained overnight). Nothing else is a thought. That's the way it should be.

Exactly! Its a joy that, like my own sons have, your boys are growing up with nude as their normal. Its a non-issue for them. They are truly free from the nasty, illogical body shame that blights so many lives. What a gift youre giving them as their dad! You might describe them as being native to nudity as opposed to having to have made a journey to nude freedom. How many dads and sons wish they could experience the life youre having with your boys! Enjoy every moment!

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I think most kids are natural nudist, they just get told starting at young age that being naked and the body is bad or dirty, then they grow up with a negative self body image....so sad. Glad your boys are just the opposite. Hope they don't grow out of that.

Well said! I agree, also by own experience and introducing by my dad.

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People continue to ask me what it's like for them. Honestly, it's not a thing. Being nude or clothed is inconsequential to their lives each day. Right now it is 7AM on a Sunday morning and I and one of the boys are hanging around nude while another is wearing shorts. They're both wrapped up in eating breakfast and watching morning shows anxious to go into the pool today (it rained overnight). Nothing else is a thought. That's the way it should be.I think most kids are natural nudist, they just get told starting at young age that being naked and the body is bad or dirty, then they grow up with a negative self body image....so sad. Glad your boys are just the opposite. Hope they don't grow out of that.This is so very true. Weve raised our two sons naturist and with only positive attitudes to their male bodies and nature.Illogical shame is a harmful learnt behaviour and we decided that we would never teach that to our sons. So our naturist and shame free family life meant that the boys always felt comfortable and confident naked with us and our friends and so they stayed naturist and free right through all the different stages of development and never had any negative attitudes or stresses about their bodies etc etc. And that was a joy for us all.And of course people who dont have negative feelings about themselves and their own bodies, feelings and sexuality etc tend to also have more positive attitudes to everyone else too! So this approach helps to produce happy, well-rounded people when those kids grow up.Its such a terrible thing to teach kids shame and fear rather than a sense of celebrating their bodies and feeling proud and happy to be nude.

Its consequent to raise as Nudist also own kids as Nudists. If your twins decided to stripp at pool, it shows that you are a good dad. Because you educate them openminded and unashamed. So, one of your twins decided to swim nude. Nudism makes the relationship between each other in a family closer. So, everyone should grow up nude. I wasnt raised nude, but was early introduced by my Dad. I'm so glad about his decision and he regret nothing.

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Like your story bud. My grandsons did the same thing in my pool when they were 9, 8, and 6. They had fun that day I, hope they pick up the nudism bug like me.

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I have twin five year old boys who are learning to swim. Typically they wear a floating vest which requires them to wear a swimsuit so theres no chaffing or pinching. Theyve gotten to the point of not needing the floating vest now and the other day one boy stands on the edge of the pool, pulls his trunks down, and says I wont be needing these. I got a giggle from that and let him do his thing. We all three ended up swimming naked out in the pool for a while. It was nice. Now Im thinking theyll never want to wear swim trunks again.That is the best! I hope mom is not around to discourage your male bonding with your boys! Jock

I agree. Females impair or disturb almost Male Bonding espacially Dad/Son-Bonding. Was the same at me as I grow up.

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My sons are now 20 and 22 and doing well. I'm so happy I encouraged them to be comfortable and proud of their naked bodies at an early age. It's not easy to be a young adult today and I'm glad that body shame isn't an issue they have to deal with!

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