What is the Answer.

I am trying to figure out why people keep sending me friends request out of the blue when our profile clearly states we wont accept friends request from members without having prior contact with them.
Is it they can't read,
Or they do not check profiles before sending a friends request.
Or are they just plain stupid,
Or other than the sender being a bot, is their some other reason I have not mentioned.

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I believe one of the reasons is; this site is being hacked and many fake profiles are being added and friends requests sent out to lure people to other sites. The friends requests are all computer generated so thousands of requests are sent out at once. Many people will automatically approve any friends request without reading it first. That is why some of these "members" amass over 800 friends in a single day. If you deny some of these requests, you will immediately receive a new request from the same individual because the computer is programmed to keep sending the request. Unfortunately, unlike the telephone laws about robocalls and a "Do Not Call List", this is not illegal on the computer.

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If they ever upgraded to protect from this stuff they should have the Captcha thing where you type in the letters or numbers in a picture to validate you are not a computer robot in order to send a friend request.

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Ah yes the Captcha thing that can't be deciphered half the time. :)

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The issue of bots is being worked on by admin.

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If they ever upgraded to protect from this stuff they should have the Captcha thing where you type in the letters or numbers in a picture to validate you are not a computer robot in order to send a friend request.I have contacted the owners of this site about introducing this for this site to help stop this happening.

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Other naturist sites have a validating system that keeps out fakers and swingers. It's a simple thing . I've no idea why TN does not implement this.
I use chrome as my browser, with a right click I can do a reverse image search on any pic to see if it appears elsewhere, but TN have some how turned this option off. There is a work around, so I don't know why they bothered.
I always check profiles when we get friends requests, if the profile seem off, I reverse check the pics. It amazes me how many come back as fake.

This is a great site with some great people, it just needs more moderation.

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