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my wife is not a nudist and would never support me doing this without her but for years i've been wanting to experience it, so this weekend as i'm heading to Nashville i'll stop by Rock Haven Lodge.my biggest fear is: I sunburn easily, very easily! What kind of high SPF sunscreen can I find that will help me not sunburn in my tan line?i'm only staying for a couple of hours but need to be careful!suggestions?anyone in the area going to Rock Haven this weekend?
my wife is not a nudist and would never support me doing this without her but for years i've been wanting to experience it, so this weekend as i'm heading to Nashville i'll stop by Rock Haven Lodge.my biggest fear is: I sunburn easily, very easily! What kind of high SPF sunscreen can I find that will help me not sunburn in my tan line?i'm only staying for a couple of hours but need to be careful!suggestions?anyone in the area going to Rock Haven this weekend?
If you sunburn that easily ... and you're trying to keep your tan lines so your wife will not know you've been naked out in the sun ... better stay inside, under an umbrella, tree ... anyplace out of the sun and ... use the SPF Sunblock/Sunscreen.
Good luck but our opinion ... bad idea not telling her! ;-)
my wife is not a nudist and would never support me doing this without her but for years i've been wanting to experience it, so this weekend as i'm heading to Nashville i'll stop by Rock Haven Lodge.my biggest fear is: I sunburn easily, very easily! What kind of high SPF sunscreen can I find that will help me not sunburn in my tan line?i'm only staying for a couple of hours but need to be careful!suggestions?anyone in the area going to Rock Haven this weekend?
If you sunburn that easily ... and you're trying to keep your tan lines so your wife will not know you've been naked out in the sun ... better stay inside, under an umbrella, tree ... anyplace out of the sun and ... use the SPF Sunblock/Sunscreen.
Good luck but our opinion ... bad idea not telling her! ;-)
I agree - cheating on your wife is very bad idea. Yes, it is cheating.
Cheating is a serious word so not sure I would apply it here. But not telling her is dishonest and not a good idea. My very first experience was to Cypress Cove at the end of as conference. My wife is not a nudist and prefers that I am not as well but over time she is less angst about it. I told her about my plan and asked her to please understand my need/desire to have this initial experience which she did (reluctantly). Honesty is always the best policy. If it backfires (with objection), them it merely means she needs more time and awareness to get used to the idea. Taking your time is a good investment.
Cheating is a serious word so not sure I would apply it here. But not telling her is dishonest and not a good idea. My very first experience was to Cypress Cove at the end of as conference. My wife is not a nudist and prefers that I am not as well but over time she is less angst about it. I told her about my plan and asked her to please understand my need/desire to have this initial experience which she did (reluctantly). Honesty is always the best policy. If it backfires (with objection), them it merely means she needs more time and awareness to get used to the idea. Taking your time is a good investment.
Being "dishonest" IS cheating.
For goodness sakes the guy wants to experience a nudist outing his wife would not approve - SO WHAT which faithful people never flirt just a bit for fun and it goes nowhere, looks at an attractive person - we all do it, opens the e-mail with nude pics on it how many wife's approve? its not cheating its natural behavior, go to a nudist resort to have sex - different league
I agree that this is probably not the 'most' appropriate scenario, but one that could work into something positive. My own first experience was a weekend when the wife was working on a big project. She literally told me to 'go play somewhere for the day'...and off I went. It went great at the park, I told the wife I had spent the day at a park in the woods and all was well. A few months later, I broached the subject with her, made it low key, and eventually took her on an orientation tour and later a day visit to a resort. It's not the perfect approach, but it did work for me.
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