I agree that this is probably not the 'most' appropriate scenario, but one that could work into something positive. My own first experience was a weekend when the wife was working on a big project. She literally told me to 'go play somewhere for the day'...and off I went. It went great at the park, I told the wife I had spent the day at a park in the woods and all was well. A few months later, I broached the subject with her, made it low key, and eventually took her on an orientation tour and later a day visit to a resort. It's not the perfect approach, but it did work for me.
Did you ever tell your wife that you lied to her?
Cheating is a serious word so not sure I would apply it here. But not telling her is dishonest and not a good idea. My very first experience was to Cypress Cove at the end of as conference. My wife is not a nudist and prefers that I am not as well but over time she is less angst about it. I told her about my plan and asked her to please understand my need/desire to have this initial experience which she did (reluctantly). Honesty is always the best policy. If it backfires (with objection), them it merely means she needs more time and awareness to get used to the idea. Taking your time is a good investment.
from personal experience:totally agree
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