How to ask a person whether he is a nudist
How to ask a person whether he/she is a nudist without he/she thinking me as some kind pervert.
In India, it is very rare to find a real naturist people. If i meet someone, it most often ends up with awkward situations. So when you find a real one, its hard not judge them. I know a few people enjoy nudism but it depends on situations like in Movies or Shows or Being Drunk not in sexual kind of way. But are they real nudist??? Do they enjoy nudism??? I dont know.
Me and my friends were at a party last week. We were like drinking all day. We went to the pool and we were wet. When we got back to our room, we were so lazy to get into new clothes. We just removed our wet clothes and started drinking again. We know that we were naked but still there is no sexual thing involved. We had dinner naked. We slept together on same bed. But nothing happened. Morning we woke up and we were naked like for 2 hours until we went for breakfast. These friends are not nudists. I dont know is it right to ask them about it. I dont want them judging me and dont wanna lose a same moment if it happens just because i asked a question.
I love to hangout with people nude. How to get to know a person whether he/she is nudist??? any suggestions.
People tend not to like labels. I would label anyone who is comfortable hanging around naked as a "nudist". But they may not like the label themselves because to them a "nudist" is a person who lives in a colony and is naked 24/7 with old people and children and who knows what else.
So I would not worry about attaching labels to people and trying to get them to adopt a label, but just enjoy their company.
It's a good possibility all/most of the ones you were drinking naked with are closet nudists anyway, and they would be good candidates to talk to about if they ever go naked at other times. I would say the ice has been broken in that respect, in that everyone stayed naked 2 hours after waking up and not immediately start scrambling to get dressed. You may have just found out you already had nudist friends that you did not know about previously. Maybe try inviting some of them over for a naked drinking party, and see who takes you up on it.
People tend not to like labels. I would label anyone who is comfortable hanging around naked as a "nudist". But they may not like the label themselves because to them a "nudist" is a person who lives in a colony and is naked 24/7 with old people and children and who knows what else.So I would not worry about attaching labels to people and trying to get them to adopt a label, but just enjoy their company.
What he said - don't ask them to attach a label to themselves. If you insist, then don't ask them if they are nudists, but to tell them you are. Or better, just relate some other naked experience you have had, even if it's just "I never wear clothes at home."
Let me put this out there, too: A lot of people don't care about "nudism" or "naturism". They may get naked now and then - or often - they may even visit nude beaches and resorts. But they don't care about nudity as part of a philosophy or perspective on life. They don't get into equality, and body acceptance, and countering a pornographic view of the body, and all the other clap-trap hard core nudists and naturists attach to not wearing clothes. Many people go about their lives doing what they do without over-analyzing the motives & whys & building philosophical frameworks around what they do.
Some of your friends are comfortable being naked? Great! Enjoy your time with them. If the situation arises, talk about "nudism" and "naturism", but don't pressure them to take on the label.
Let me put this out there, too: A lot of people don't care about "nudism" or "naturism". They may get naked now and then - or often - they may even visit nude beaches and resorts. But they don't care about nudity as part of a philosophy or perspective on life. They don't get into equality, and body acceptance, and countering a pornographic view of the body, and all the other clap-trap hard core nudists and naturists attach to not wearing clothes. Many people go about their lives doing what they do without over-analyzing the motives & whys & building philosophical frameworks around what they do.Some of your friends are comfortable being naked? Great! Enjoy your time with them. If the situation arises, talk about "nudism" and "naturism", but don't pressure them to take on the label.
Some people will love doing the hot tub nude but will most likely have a towel warped around to get from the house to it and back and the same applies for skinny dipping so they like been nude doing different things but not call themselves nudists.
People tend not to like labels. I would label anyone who is comfortable hanging around naked as a "nudist". But they may not like the label themselves because to them a "nudist" is a person who lives in a colony and is naked 24/7 with old people and children and who knows what else.So I would not worry about attaching labels to people and trying to get them to adopt a label, but just enjoy their company.
Well put. I'm very close to a very active nudist that doesn't care how it sounds in the ear.
How to ask a person whether he/she is a nudist without he/she thinking me as some kind pervert.In India, it is very rare to find a real naturist people. If i meet someone, it most often ends up with awkward situations. So when you find a real one, its hard not judge them. I know a few people enjoy nudism but it depends on situations like in Movies or Shows or Being Drunk not in sexual kind of way. But are they real nudist??? Do they enjoy nudism??? I dont know.Me and my friends were at a party last week. We were like drinking all day. We went to the pool and we were wet. When we got back to our room, we were so lazy to get into new clothes. We just removed our wet clothes and started drinking again. We know that we were naked but still there is no sexual thing involved. We had dinner naked. We slept together on same bed. But nothing happened. Morning we woke up and we were naked like for 2 hours until we went for breakfast. These friends are not nudists. I dont know is it right to ask them about it. I dont want them judging me and dont wanna lose a same moment if it happens just because i asked a question. I love to hangout with people nude. How to get to know a person whether he/she is nudist??? any suggestions.
Sounds to me like you have nudist friends there. or at least nudist friendly.
Or a bunch of drunk guys relaxing.
In your case, avoid the labels, and just ask them if they have ever done that before or what is the longest they have stayed naked.
When meeting new people, I tell a story about neighbors that we knew well, thatsold all their belongings, bought a 5th wheel and started traveling. We realized they kept going back to a RV park resort in Texas so the next time they were back we asked about it and it was a nudist park with 2400 lots and two pools. soI look at peoples reaction and ask if they would visit such a resort. They I tell them there are such RV parks in every state. Just met a lady last week who admitted she is a closet nudist and always wanted to go to a nudist beach or resort.
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