So Cali dad and sons!
I enjoy meeting new people on the internet and maybe meet someplace for coffee and conversation beyond group or forum topics, try to get a sense if there's really a friendship or just acquaintance. My wife prefers meeting people in person, at a resort, the club or the beach. She's not comfortable being the only nude women in any meet up, so I would meet up first, get a sense of the person and then probably suggest we meet up again at the club, resort or beach.
We've met up with a few couples from the internet and the meet ups didn't go as I'd hoped. Those couples were something other than they were on the net and those meet ups really soured that idea for my wife. It just works better for us to meet at a nudist venue and see if there's more in common than nudism. At a club, resort or beach, the clothes are off and that's taken care of. We are able to move on to more in depth discoveries of one another.