Why do so many accept hundreds of 'friends' and then never speak to any of them?

Question is why do so many here accept so many 'friends' and then never reply to any message or act like civil people? Seems like nudism only works in the real world as most people would never act this way in person.

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RE: Why do so many accept hundreds of 'friends' and then never speak to any of them?

Maybe some people think that this is similar to Facebook or Twitter.

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To boost their ego that so many people like them.

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They are called "Friend's Collectors.
This is what I have posted in my profile and yet they still send me friend's request. I just deny them :) and move on with life:
PLEASE HAVE A FULL PROFILE BEFORE YOU SEND ME A FRIENDS REQUEST. IF YOUR PROFILE IS COMPLETELY BLOCKED, DON'T SEND ME A FRIENDS REQUEST. IF YOU LIVE ACROSS THE WORLD, MORE LIKELY I WON'T GET TO MEET YOU, SO DON'T SEND ME A FRIEND REQUEST. IF YOU HAVE THOUSANDS AND THOUSANDS OF FRIENDS, PLEASE DON'T SEND ME A FRIENDS REQUEST.

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One guy here has over 3000 friends ... most of them are young womenwith pictures taken from the internet, I'm sure, so I'm guessing they areguys posing as women. It's sad really. Same ol' response ..."thanks for friending us." How does this guy keep up with all thesefriends ... I'm sure he doesn't. I'm certain ALL he wants is to see the"friends only" pictures. He could probablyjust log onto any nudisttumblr and see those exact photos. :DMost of these fake profiles have only one photo any way so you don't need to friend them to see the photo.

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And: The more friends you have, the higher you go in the
Popularity search result. And the more likely it is that when you
sort your friends list by last login, you will find that someone
you've clicked with (pun intended) is online at the moment, so that
you can contemplate a real-time interaction with them.

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And: The more friends you have, the higher you go in thePopularity search result. And the more likely it is that when yousort your friends list by last login, you will find that someoneyou've clicked with (pun intended) is online at the moment, so thatyou can contemplate a real-time interaction with them.

Sounds like a good way to advertise maybe we need to start collecting "cyber friends" :) www.westhighlandretreat.Co. uk cheers

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RE: Why do so many accept hundreds of 'friends' and then never speak to any of them?

The better question is, why are you so worried about what others are doing? If they want to "collect friends" as worded here, then that's their prerogative. All you need to do is deny their friend request (if you even got one) and keep it moving.

This is a nudist community. We're used to people judging us. Let's not do what they do and judge folks within our own community, especially on how they choose to use the site. Do what makes you happy, and stop judging others on what makes them happy.

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There is an option to have your pohotos only viewable by friends...
So if you have lots of photos, you get lots of requests.

So strange how some people who say they like to live their lives as social naturists..... Want to see so many pictures of naked people.

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RE: Why do so many accept hundreds of 'friends' and then never speak to any of them?

The better question is, why are you so worried aboutwhat others are doing? If they want to "collect friends" as wordedhere, then that's their prerogative. All you need to do is denytheir friend request (if you even got one) and keep it moving. Thisis a nudist community. We're used to people judging us. Let's notdo what they do and judge folks within our own community,especially on how they choose to use the site. Do what makes youhappy, and stop judging others on what makes themhappy.




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There is an option to have your pohotos only viewable by friends...So if you have lots of photos, you get lots of requests.So strange how some people who say they like to live their lives as social naturists..... Want to see so many pictures of naked people.We are members at a nudist resort. We are definitely social nudist and enjoy interacting with our nudist friends. That's why we want to see the pics on TN - we want to see who we are talking to. Especially if the pics have captions on them and we can see where they have been or how they live their nude life. We like to take pics of each other and post them here fairly often. We are not ashamed to be nudist - we share nude pics on here like we do clothed pics on Facebook. Really no difference except the audience is different lol

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