Influencing New Nudist
I met a recent college grad last week in my gym's steamroom wrapped in his towel. Nice guy but I have no idea how he dries his body with a towel that has spent considerable time in the steamroom.. But he is young.
I was naked as always. We had nice conversation.
Last night he was there again wrapped in his towel. I was again naked. We again spoke and talked politics. At one point he opened up his towel exposing his penis and testicles. I did not remark but felt maybe My being naked made him a bit bolder. We spoke briefly in the showers where at first he kept turning away but eventually was comfortable facing me.
Then he came into the sauna where I was and he immediately took off his towel and sat on it exposing his body without shame. I think most men enjoy their bodies in its natural state and relish time spent naked with other men. I feel I helped this young man to grown in his personal life. Stay naked!!!
Great story... I think you're right. We have quite a few pool parties throughout the year, and our clothed friends know that we, and the majority of the other guests will be naked. After a short period of time, (after 2 or 3 parties) almost all of our clothed friends feel very comfortable getting naked when they come over. They now wonder why they hadn't done it years ago because it is so natural and enjoyable. Leading by example..? LOL
A like of guys don't want to be the first or only one doing something. I remember going to a beach in the late 70's where every guy was in baggy swimsuits. Took my shorts off to reveal my speedos and stretched out in the sun. Next time I looked around, there were quite a few guys who had dropped their baggies to show they had speedos on underneath.
I cruise (on ships) a lot. At the beginning of the trip, the swimsuits out number the skins in the sauna/steam room. I always am naked right from the beginning. By the end of the cruise, most are naked. Good to set the example early on.