Big Site, Small Forum Activity
I agree that hostility to first-time posters is a problem. For each
poster, the question raised is real, and new, and deserves real
consideration. Yes, people often begin their involvement with the
site with a post, before they invest energy in their profile. Yes,
people often raise issues that have been discussed before, and that
could be researched by other means. So what? That's not a bad
thing, just their choice of how to approach the site.
I'm sure it's true, too, that for many users online nudism is
wholly or in part a visual experience, for whom a text-only forum holds no interest.
Part of the problem is that the same few self-righteous prigs come stomping down on the threads, as self appointed moral guardians.
Yeah, sure is a tough job, but someone has to do it. Left without supervision, this would end up as one of the top porn sites.
Part of the problem is that the same few self-righteous prigs come stomping down on the threads, as self appointed moral guardians.
Yeah, sure is a tough job, but someone has to do it. Left without supervision, this would end up as one of the top porn sites.
Or perhaps the forums would be more active because folks are not immediately pounced on and chased away.
Or perhaps the forums would be more active becausefolks are not immediately pounced on and chasedaway.
Been there, tried it, and it doesn't work. 90% of first posts
from new members are from perverts pushing to see how far they can
go.
If that'swhat you prefer on here
instead of genuine people, then good luck, I'llleave
the poor sickos alonefrom now on and let the site
deteriorate into a porn haven.
The owners of this site seem to be out to lunch when it comes to policing this site. Some members jumped in to volunteer to help fill that gap. It would be great if their efforts weren't needed but unfortunately that is not the case. In the past there have been some real bomb throwers who would blow every topic apart so no one could have a reasonable discussion. The unfortunate result is that the Forums have often been very dull.
I agree with Rockdad.
the currect censoring by volunteers is strangling the place slowly.
Mention anything remotely controversial (as in stimulating) and the same few people are down on you like a ton of bricks with their own form of puritanism.
It is actually very off putting. There is no need for it. Foe example If you do not want to discuss erections then go elsewhere, do not come barging in on people who do. It is a real question for many newbies. it is simply rude as hell to interupt a conversation and demand it be done on your terms. I would not tolerate it at a party so why on here? Butt out
Likewise it seems just odd there is a the same thing happening on sex and sexuality or did quite often. FFS it is about sex yet had people trying to draw boundaries about what people can talk about.
The result was I get fed up posting because the last thing I need is some self-righteous bore screaming at me online.
This is a great pity because it could be a useful forum for exchanging ideas and nudists vary as much as the genral population, it is not just the preserve of an elect few, who are often well behind the times.
Part of the problem is that the same few self-righteousprigs come stomping down on the threads, as self appointed moralguardians.
Yeah, sure is a tough job, but someone has to do it. Left
without supervision, this would end up as one of the top porn
sites.
Or perhaps the forums would be more active because folks are not
immediately pounced on and chased away.
Ok Rockdad, so you agree with the thread titled 'Sex', posted 9 hour
ago by Robel, who says hi my name is robel i went to talk about
sex but there is no person to courage this thing that is very
shame. Perhaps you should welcome him/her to the site, and have
a good sexual conversation, so they know they're on the right site
for their needs.