My guest last night

A guy I know recently went through a divorce. We had really never done anything socially but when I heard he had split with his wife, I reached out to him as a single guy. Most divorces the women get to keep the "couples" friends and the guy is left out in the cold.Over a month ago he came out for dinner and I hinted in advance that I would be bare, he was fine with that. He stripped when it was time to soak. Last night he was coming out again. His just graduated from HS son was at home when he left and Dave told him he would be welcome to come along. His son said " will Kevin be naked? " Dave answered " probably" so the son said " uh no" I thought it amusing that Dave had told his son I hung out nude and that he had soaked that way with me. Last night Dave stayed clothed until we soaked, then post soak he made some butter beer in blender and we continued our chat, he did not get dressed until he left over an hour later. Baby steps , maybe next time he will strip at the door, and who knows his son may decide that it would be worth the exposure for a home cooked meal and a soak. At least Dave is honest with him.

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A positive story and well worth the effort and the honesty

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It would be nice, but this day and time there is not much chance of
his son changing, maybe a small chance with his age group.
Something they don't seam to realize is that they will be old too
some day.

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Love this.Baby steps indeed.I took 10 years from the age of 40 to come out of my shell.Its the best thing I've ever done, That I know now.
Let them go at their own pace, Everyones different.That's what makes the would go round.

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A question I have is how is son at home always clothed or naked and when he has friends over how are they

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Sounds like your friendship is off to a great start! New friends are nice, naked friends are even better.

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One question. What is butter beer?

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One question. What is butter beer?frozen ice cubes of cream soda dumped in a blender with butterscotch rum to taste. blend until it is like the slurpees at the gas station. yummy. I don't think that is the recipe from the Harry Potter books.

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