Theres something I really don't get!!!
Theres something I really don't get!!!
The other day I send a friend request to a gentleman here and the next thing I notice is that he changed his profile message to "NO SINGLE MEN" also I have requested friendship with many females and yen I have none on my friends list! Does it have to do with me being single and?or gay???? cause none of those spell pervert! I'm just a regular guy looking for friends... to share and exchange ideas not to have intimacy or sex... I know I'm not the only one cause I read a post addressing the same topic some time ago! So we are here and we dont understand why the textile people discriminate or find strange the nude people and yet here we are judjing and discriminating against single people
so I really don't get it!!!
I can't speak aboutchat since I usually can't get in. But I believe the Friends List is a little over-rated. Most of the people I speak to most often aren't even on my list.
As to why people don't want to include you, there canbe many reasons, everything from homophobia to flipping a coin.
I'll stillmake a request every now and then to some people, but there are more people sending ME requests at this point.And they're almostall men. Nothing wrong with that, but then I've given up on my dream of having 50-50 representation. On this site, it just won't happenunless I turn down a LOT of men. And I do mean a LOT!
Theres something I really don't get!!! The other day I send a friend request to a gentleman here and the next thing I notice is that he changed his profile message to "NO SINGLE MEN" also I have requested friendship with many females and yen I have none on my friends list! Does it have to do with me being single and?or gay???? cause none of those spell pervert! I'm just a regular guy looking for friends... to share and exchange ideas not to have intimacy or sex... I know I'm not the only one cause I read a post addressing the same topic some time ago! So we are here and we dont understand why the textile people discriminate or find strange the nude people and yet here we are judjing and discriminating against single people so I really don't get it!!!
You may want to re-evaluate your train of thought. While the gay movement in America[ the melting pot] is the new thing, some of us believe that love is between a man and a woman. Creation of the human race began with that and I doubt you will do better by plugging a butthole. No, I'm not judging the gay people here, but "so we are here and we don't understand why the textile peoplle discriminate"Is not a valid question. Personally, I don't like queers [This might get me booted...again] but this is not a troll, or homosexual ,or lesbian ,site. "Don't ask, Dont tell" There are Gay sites for you to join. Don't start shit, there won't be any shit. If I have misunderstood you, don't start shit.
DOG.
Don't get me wrong DOG but you aredisgusting! I'm not here for a date! I have a loving partner for the past 6yrs! Don't confuse being gay with being weak cause that not the case! You sound like a rely MACHO! a man??? It takes more than your bad words and attitude to be one!
Love is universal to all... ok ok I know you cant love your son cause he's a male... you are amale chauvinist the type that think to cry is for the week the type that wont say I love you to their kids cause thats the women's job the one that commit the hate crimes every day!
I didn't chose to be gay and I'm not even close to be a queer or queen or any way you want to call it I'm a MAN that happens to like other men not a pervert or a sick person like you are CABRON
I don'treallycare for an other friend I's just curious how people havesucha closed mind and then ask for tolerance
The way I see it.... being online should be treated as "real life" I don't run down the street asking people to be my friend, nor if someone rejects me as a friend do I keepbadgeringthem over and over, we would look at anyone doing that kind of behavior as a completelunatic and have them locked up... Instead, I talk with someone, chat it up bit... might even find out their name, so I can forget it as they walk away.... but that doesn't quite make them my friend.... I typically have a hard time with names... so in "real life" I consider someone my friend.. if I remember their name, that means we have talked enough and gotten to know each other enough for me to bother to remember it.... now... here on TN... its not much different... you read peoples posts... you send a message or two.... if they respond in a nice accepting way... and you have some common interests.... THEN... you send a message... saying "Hey, mind if I make you my friend?" if they do great.... if they don't.. move on... As far as status's go.... I don't really care what you are, or if your Gay, married, Looking... or if you like to chase furryanimals (I know thats not an option yet)...not really my business.... However... I am not Gay... and I don't Chase woodland creatures.... So those are areas that someone is interested in... we obviously wont have those things in common... so, if i get a friend request... from someone that is Gay, BI, or any other combination (even if they are straight for that matter) If i don't see a message or anything that interests me in their profile... I will click "Deny" button I also check the certified status, if you aren't certified then I might get out the coin... Have said all of that... the bottom line is.... "Try to make friends on TN like you would in Real Life"
Hey DOG... just a joke! is it?
Four friends, who hadn't seen each other in 30 years, reunited at a party. After several drinks, one of the men had to use the rest room.Those who remained talked about their kids.The first guy said, 'My son is my pride and joy.He started working at asuccessful company at the bottom of the barrel.He studied Economics and Business Administration and soon began to climb the corporate ladder and now he's the president of the company. He became so rich that he gave his best friend a top of the line Mercedes for his birthday.'The second guy said, 'Darn, that's terrific! My son is also my pride and joy. He started working for a big airline, then went to flight school to become a pilot. Eventually he became a partner in the company, where he owns the majority of its assets He's so rich that he gave his best friend a brand new jet for his birthday. 'The third man said: 'Well, that's terrific! My son studied in the best universities and became an engineer. Then he started his own construction company and is now a multimillionaire.. He also gave away something very nice and expensive to his best friend for his birthday: A 30,000 square foot mansion.'. The three friends congratulated each other just as the fourth returned from the restroom and asked: 'What are all the congratulations for?' One of the three said: 'We were talking about the pride we feel for the successes of our sons. ....What about your son?' The fourth man replied: 'My son is gay and makes a living dancing as a stripper at a nightclub.' 'The three friends said: 'What a shame... what a disappointment!'. 'The fourth man replied: 'No, I'm not ashamed. He's my son and I love him. And he hasn't done too bad either. His birthday was two weeks ago, and he received a beautiful 30,000 square foot mansion, a brand new jet and a top of the line Mercedes from his three boyfriends ;)
The way I see it.... being online should be treated as "real life" I don't run down the street asking people to be my friend, nor if someone rejects me as a friend do I keepbadgeringthem over and over, we would look at anyone doing that kind of behavior as a completelunatic and have them locked up... Instead, I talk with someone, chat it up bit... might even find out their name, so I can forget it as they walk away.... but that doesn't quite make them my friend.... I typically have a hard time with names... so in "real life" I consider someone my friend.. if I remember their name, that means we have talked enough and gotten to know each other enough for me to bother to remember it.... now... here on TN... its not much different... you read peoples posts... you send a message or two.... if they respond in a nice accepting way... and you have some common interests.... THEN... you send a message... saying "Hey, mind if I make you my friend?" if they do great.... if they don't.. move on... As far as status's go.... I don't really care what you are, or if your Gay, married, Looking... or if you like to chase furryanimals (I know thats not an option yet)...not really my business.... However... I am not Gay... and I don't Chase woodland creatures.... So those are areas that someone is interested in... we obviously wont have those things in common... so, if i get a friend request... from someone that is Gay, BI, or any other combination (even if they are straight for that matter) If i don't see a message or anything that interests me in their profile... I will click "Deny" button I also check the certified status, if you aren't certified then I might get out the coin... Have said all of that... the bottom line is.... "Try to make friends on TN like you would in Real Life"
if you like to chase furryanimals... thats hilarious!
Thanks! thats my point indeferentwords... I do get the single man thing... so many have abused that now its almost a stereotype... so sad its that way
With apologies to Pastor Martin Niemller:
"THEY CAME FIRST for the homosexuals,
and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a homosexual.
THEN THEY CAME for the Christians,
and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a Christian.
THEN THEY CAME for the Dogs,
and I didn't speak up because I wasn't a Dog.
THEN THEY CAME for me
and by that time no nudists were left to speak up."