I am not old.Queue mob of angry ladies in 5...4...3...2...
I am old, male and will happily join thequeueof angry ladies as they approach thisarrogantyoung man who in his first post on TN has certainly shown his immaturity
..the women here seem to think they deserve more than they really do. ... its human nature for males to pursue females. ... but always remember that women are complex and illogical beings....
One more example of why we are having so much troublein keeping women on this site... Is it any wonder they decide to leave?
And it also the reason us younger guys get a bad rep. As a young single male I am constantly ignored by single women, even those that live in the same city as me (I don't have this problem in my day to day life just on this site). I don't blame these ladies for ignoring me considering what I am sure they put up with but I do promise everyone that there are some genuine and respectful young single guys in the nudist world.As for the topic of conversation, because single men carry a 'stigma' I say its not worth trying to start a conversation. The people I have met at nudist beaches approached me after I gave a friendly nod/wave anda hello while going for a walk near the waters edge. If they are open to conversation they will make it clear, if not leave them to enjoy the sun.
I would say that is the best advice I have heard on here yet.... Just go to the beach/resort to relax, and the other people on the beach will get the idea that you are genuine and not there to pick up chicks, they might be more open to come up to you and talk. The nudist environment is about Trust, Relaxation, and Freedom. NOT about Checking out theopposite sex, picking up chicks, or flaunting your "goods" if people see that you are there for the "right" reasons they (in myexperience) willtalk to you. On the other hand, if they see you trying to pick up every woman that walk by or sitting there checking them all out... they willdefiantlyavoid you like a troll. Beiungaggressivein a "relaxing" environment will probably get you nowhere.
Having once been young and nude myself, going back the memory lane to those days I was (and still am) an avid contact-maker on the beaches and have taken first steps myself as well as approached by others. On most occasions. It very much depends a beach whether a contact is possible/reasonable/desirable and then of course up to an individual. Some of my best female friends I have first met at a nude or clothing optional beach. On the other hand, women tend to see through most male approaches that smell "pickupish" and have no real substance behind (though some women take all advances as pick up attempts as well).
So very hard to say anything fundamental except always when making social contact, no matter with whom some rules apply:
1. Thinks very carefully whom to approach and whom not. Those open to contacts are often people who actively follow what goes on around them and easily return a smile - as well as do not avoid eye contact.
2. Be genuine - this means also that if you are a wanker and trying to hide it, u probably can't deceive anyone. Also stupid excuses or lame pickup lines are usually not appreciated.
3. Do not rush - people do not usually like too much too soon, whether it is words, gestures or diminishing the physical distance between different individuals
4. If a slightest sign of disinterest, back up
5. Always easier to be inclusive than exclusive. So 1+1 contacts tend to scare some off, but if you part of bunch, inviting an individual nearby to share a game, drink, snack or some other beach activity - or approach a group of some kind (that preferably not consisting ONLY of couples) it is easier to get positive response than when going as a male to a single girl on the beach and asking to spread some tan lotion on her body.
6. Above all, be friendly. In case there is more electricity than a friendly beach conversation/activity, it will soon or less be felt. If there is not such feeling, do not make any approaches that go beyond friendly beach cameraderie between perfect strangers.
Biggest problem in the entire issue is that many of the males who most eager to make contacts on the beaches do it in a manner that may be rather contraproductive. In general many textile beaches seem to be somewhat easier to make new acquaintances, but on nude or c/o beaches each one has a bit different subculture and usually those where majority holidaymakers and not locals tend to be more open as people when off their daily routine usually also more interested to contact new people.
If I need to pick up a girl, usually a nude beach or nude resort would not be my first destination to look after one....
How much more spamming can this poster get away with before being removed?! Flag please
My guess would be 130+ It looks like several of the groups have been flooded with the same spam... UGH... why do people do these things....and why someone that claims to be from New York.... (you don't have to answer that, I know... just don't want to accept my answer) "FLAGGED"
I may not be the right one to answer but I'll give it a try. If you like the nudism, you want to meet a woman who has the same interest. I feel the real problem is nudist women get hit on so often they are sick of it. They will shoot you down just for that reason! Giving you 90% less of a chance than if you met the same woman at a textile park. Look for a potentialmate in the textile world that has no tan lines and other hints. This will probably serve you better.
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