Nude and boners
Try mixed-sex environments. Pick occasions when you have things to do,
and reasons to interact with people, rather than just lie there. (Volleyball, anyone?) Worry less; you can always roll over, get in the water, pull up a towel for a bit. Review your decision to put up a photo shot up toward the crotch - in a nudist environment, as in a textile one, it is more usual to interact face-to-face rather than up from the knees.
This may be a touchy subject....but I'm a newbie nudist..and yes Im gay..but i cabt seem from getting an erection around gay or straight men..any advice..
This should not be a touchy subject as it's a perfectly normal reaction, more so when your new to nudism/naturism. One obvious thing is to carry a towel about with you that's big enough to throw over your shoulder and long enough to cover your erection. In time, you should learn to control your erections, it just takes a bit of time. You didn't say whether you have a high libido or not as this will have an effect on how often you get erect. There is also the obvious thing of seeing other guys naked and liking what you see, again a perfectly natural thing to happen.
I also note from having just looked at your profile, that you are a very nicely endowed man, so you becoming erect will stand out more than others would. Some people masturbate/ejaculate before being in the situation of being naked with other guys, just to take the edge off becoming erect when in company of others guys, it can help, but not always.
You being gay has nothing really to do with it, as even straight men will become erect when other guys are hard as well, it's just something that happens, your all men, we all know that mens dicks have a mind of their own and the more you think of wanting it to go down, the harder it becomes, so just let it happen ! There will be guys, str8 or gay that will admire the fact that your well endowed and that can set them off to becoming hard. Never be made to feel bad or embarrassed about becoming erect, your no different to any other man.
It's all part of becoming a nudist, you do learn to deal with it one way or another.
IMHO as a gay nudist as well, I think that male arousal is perfectly natural. Likewise, whether gay nudists, gay friendly or male friendly nudists people will recognize this as well. True Nudists respect this and only true prudists will assume you have some "perverted" motive and chastise you for it.
Still, whether you're 14 of 47 it is nudist etiquette to not expose your erection. Simply roll on your stomach, jump in the pool or cover yourself with a towel until it goes away.
Try mixed-sex environments. Pick occasions when you have things to do, and reasons to interact with people, rather than just lie there. (Volleyball, anyone?) Worry less; you can always roll over, get in the water, pull up a towel for a bit. Review your decision to put up a photo shot up toward the crotch - in a nudist environment, as in a textile one, it is more usual to interact face-to-face rather than up from the knees.
I agree with the mixed-sex environment and interaction with other people but playing volleyball is not something i would recommend.
in my case, all this jumping and bouncing makes it worse...
FLAGGEDThis discussion has gone far astray. The last post is inappropriate here.
Why inappropriate? It is a guy asking a legitimate question. Another guy provided a legitimate, honest answer. We are mature adults. Isn't the essence of nudism accepting who we are and the bodies we have? Those bodies happen to function in a way to result with erections. It is a valid discussion and I don't believe the way it has been discussed is inappropriate at all.
FLAGGEDThis discussion has gone far astray. The last post is inappropriate here.Why inappropriate? It is a guy asking a legitimate question. Another guy provided a legitimate, honest answer. We are mature adults. Isn't the essence of nudism accepting who we are and the bodies we have? Those bodies happen to function in a way to result with erections. It is a valid discussion and I don't believe the way it has been discussed is inappropriate at all.
I saw nothing inappropriate in the post either. I Don't know why it would be flagged.
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