Like others have stated, erections are a completely normal and natural body function/response. They can happen without a sexual stimulus to just about anyone with a penis and at any random time.
Some times from complete relaxation in the sauna, or maybe from a conversation with a friend. Yeah sometimes they have sexual undertones but even then, dont believe its something to be ashamed of.
Just being mindful of erection etiquette around others when it does happen.
I love with a roomie who is a non nudist, but a very close friend. Weve seen each other nude, and erect a few times. So I know its no biggie in the mornings getting water or coffee and I still have morning wood.
I have sat down with a stranger at the sauna, he mentioned another man that was around the spa and his very large flaccid penis, although the conversation was more about awe of his member we both got erect but didnt feel shame even pointed them out to each other and just kept conversing, eventually the conversation changed to something else and we both became flaccid again and carried on.
Theres times when the will be more sexually charged but its just about knowing the context and your surroundings.
Meet someone that tickles your fancy? Go to a private place and enjoy yalls erections any way youd like haha
Erections shouldnt be anything to be embarrassed or feel shame about its just part of our body mechanics, peoples attitudes are what suck.
This may be a touchy subject....but I'm a newbie nudist..and yes Im gay..but I can't seem from getting an erection around gay or straight men..any advice..All men have cocks -- it's part of what defines us as men/male. Except in the case where some medical condition prevents it, all cocks became erect. When you're around men, there should be no issue regarding an erection. All the men you're with have cocks and essentially all of those cocks become erect. They are not going to be shocked at the sight of an erect cock. Men know that erections happen.The more you just go with it and stop worrying about it, the less it will happen. But if it doesn't, it's not going to matter. It's just you cock doing what it was designed to do.Just for clarification, I'm a straight single man.If you're ever over at my house, feel free to sport an erection. Yours will not be the first erect cock I've seen.One time when I had a couple of guys (nudists) over, one of them not only had an erection, but also started jerking off -- but then stopped. I didn't want to say anything to him about it in front of the others for fear of possibly embarrassing him. In a few minutes we were alone together and I said, "In my house, please feel free to have an erection and jerk off if you want to. We're all men. We all do it. It's perfectly OK." He said he was just doing it as a joke. I told him that was fine -- and do it for real if you want.I think men should be free to be men. That includes, having cocks and balls, having erect cocks, dripping pre-cum, and even jerking off. It's all merely part of what it means to be men.
Well you probably will get a lot of flack over that posting from the prude dudes. I agree with you. I am also a straight single man. I do jerk off. If I'm at a guys only nude gathering and somebody feels like jerking off I say let him, just be careful where that thing is aimed. I remember when I was much younger enjoying circle jerks with several friends. Felt weird the first time. I was stroking the friend to my right at a different speed than the friend to my left was stroking me. It all balanced out in the end. I know this has nothing to do with nudism, but sex is a part of life and we should be able to discuss it.
This may be a touchy subject....but I'm a newbie nudist..and yes Im gay..but I can't seem from getting an erection around gay or straight men..any advice..All men have cocks -- it's part of what defines us as men/male. Except in the case where some medical condition prevents it, all cocks became erect. When you're around men, there should be no issue regarding an erection. All the men you're with have cocks and essentially all of those cocks become erect. They are not going to be shocked at the sight of an erect cock. Men know that erections happen.The more you just go with it and stop worrying about it, the less it will happen. But if it doesn't, it's not going to matter. It's just you cock doing what it was designed to do.Just for clarification, I'm a straight single man.If you're ever over at my house, feel free to sport an erection. Yours will not be the first erect cock I've seen.One time when I had a couple of guys (nudists) over, one of them not only had an erection, but also started jerking off -- but then stopped. I didn't want to say anything to him about it in front of the others for fear of possibly embarrassing him. In a few minutes we were alone together and I said, "In my house, please feel free to have an erection and jerk off if you want to. We're all men. We all do it. It's perfectly OK." He said he was just doing it as a joke. I told him that was fine -- and do it for real if you want.I think men should be free to be men. That includes, having cocks and balls, having erect cocks, dripping pre-cum, and even jerking off. It's all merely part of what it means to be men.Well you probably will get a lot of flack over that posting from the prude dudes. I agree with you. I am also a straight single man. I do jerk off. If I'm at a guys only nude gathering and somebody feels like jerking off I say let him, just be careful where that thing is aimed. I remember when I was much younger enjoying circle jerks with several friends. Felt weird the first time. I was stroking the friend to my right at a different speed than the friend to my left was stroking me. It all balanced out in the end. I know this has nothing to do with nudism, but sex is a part of life and we should be able to discuss it.
Phil my friend, You are right, this has nothing to do with nudism. but, it is interesting to read. As you said, -"but sex is a part of life and we should be able to discuss it." Let's see how it is accepted.
This topic of boners is something that really depends on the situation that you are in. In mix company my personal feelings is that it's not something that is accepted by many. Yes it happens but then the individual should take action to 'control' it, as someone said, take a cold shower. At a nudist resort, nearly all would say, not appropriate. At a beach, depends what part of the beach you are in. The mix area, I've seen guys boned up but most just ignored them. At the male end, they seen to happen more but then are they trying to impress someone?
To be nude is not something sexual per say, though many take it to be since most are only nude for two functions in their day to day life, to take a shower or to have sex. Now if you are nude for sexual purpose, then getting a boner is part of what will happen, regardless if you're in mix company or just guys. I've experience many times in saunas that are for men only, guys getting boners where in most cases they intended to show. Now is that appropriate, here is where it gets 'messy' per say. It goes back to one question, "is it appropriate place for it?". In a public sauna at the gym or hotel or resort, not really though some guys will state, it's natural for it to happen. Yes, but it goes back to what are you thinking about when you get that boner? It's not always 'it had a mind of it's own'. I've been at only men nude gathering, and a 'newbie' is there and most of the times they get boners. Most will ignore it or tell the guy, hey it will go away if you get involved in what the group is doing. There has been a few times when guys will assist the boner along, that's when if the group has made it clear, the gathering is not sexual, someone speaks up. One host at one gathering told one guy to either stop, take a shower or leave. The guy got dress and left. I do massages, and they are done nude, yes guys get boners most of the times but there is no happy ending from me. Massages are for relaxing of body, mind and spirit so why tense up to have a release? Again, in this situation, is a boner appropriate? For me massages are not my intensions to get a guy turned on unless it's a sensual massage and then again, sexual activity is not part of it.
Good points and cool shared experiences, guys. The way I look at boners in public (uh huh huh huh) is this: its one thing if someone is creeping really hard on a person or persons, AKA unwanted sexual attention for the purposes of getting off of the act of exposing himself then. That is just not OK in my book. On (or in?) the other hand, guys just hanging out nekkid some place with each other popping bones here and there because the sun felt too damn good, or the breeze stimulated the body hairs just so, or a sexy thought passed through (or walked by)..... who cares? Were all guys, and its a normal body function that should not be shamed when its just that. If someones around giving weird looks about it, maybe cover up or whatever as a courtesy I GUESS (or better yet move closer to cooler people), but if its just us guys, dont be prudes! Let the flagpole fly. It will eventually flop back on down. Give it a stealthy grab or rub or adjustment-yknow we all do it. Be proud of your manhood! Check out your buds manhood! Yknow we all do that too, and sexual orientation doesnt even have to come into play there. Sometimes the lines blur between the right place/time for a boner, and I think thats why theres so much discussion about it. Trouble is, our bodies DGAF when/where we are. Ive had many WTF boners myself. LOL! But srsly, just chilling with other guys especially, WHO CARES? We all know how it goes and all that.
Spontaneous erections are triggered by a number of stimuli, even a breeze especially when new to nudity. If an erection occurs just keep it discreet under a towel, in a pool if there is one, or behind some landscaping particularly in mixed company because I think most women would be more offended or feel threatened by an erection whereas I think most men would understand though you never can be too certain who might be offended (someone correct me if I'm wrong about that). An erection is an indication you are alive and I applaud that. Just don't come charging toward me with it! haha
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