Once upon a time, I wanted a better tan. Now I know how foolish it is to risk skin cancer. Nonetheless, it is still comfortable to be nude. Some skin Dr's are starting to say that 15 mins of sun 3 times a week with no sunscreen on can actually be benificial! And may even help prevent skin cancer. Not to mention it's one of the best ways to get Vit D into your body. (Get the sun before you bathe with soap as the oil on ur skin is part of making Vit D ).After that.... lather up with the spf30 or higher and enjoy the sun..... I know I love the sun on my whole body.... feels great!
Both my husband's and my dermatologists say to go outside any day without sunscreen is foolish. We've both had basal cell carcinomas removed. His was more serious than mine.
As a female myself there are many reasons why I love being nude. I would aussume (correct me if I am wrong :D) that a lady and a man have very similar motivations. It all started with I loved the feeling of sleeping nude and not becomming tangled in a mess of PJ's by the morning hours. Then the thoughts why dress ASAP from the shower, it's much easier to not hide behind a towel. Through the years of "closet home nudism" I began to realize the benefits I saw in my own self image. I became much more accepting of my own body and bodies of others (a medical profession helped that along too!) I don't know if this sheds any light on the topic but I figured I had to make my first post somewhere :D
I myself always loved the feeling of being nude, and i got into a relationship with a man that was a nudist, and i just jumped right it! We are no longer together, and i didnt know how i was going or if i was going to continue, but i did, and lovin every minute of it!!
I really don't know what motivates girls to become a nudist, but I can tell that my late wife would not disrobe in public under any circumstance. I tried for many years to get her to attend a nudist venue with me. She absolutely refused to go.
I'll tell my little story. It took me about about year to get my (X) wife to the resort. She went nude about 10 mns the first time;and that was on a slow weekday with only a couple of people around. After that, she went nude here and there, usually in the pool or hot-tub, or sitting by the pool the next two or three visits. Never getting up and walking around nude without either a sarong or towel. Body acceptance issues were the reason given.
And then we go to a get-together at a nudist home. She doesn't want to be there, is mad at me, wraps herself defensively in hersarong, is not going to take it off "no matter what." There are a bunch of nude ladies in the kitchen, they pull my wife in to help them; I see her face light up. An hour goes by. I suddenly hear "dinner is ready", turn around and see my wife completely nude with a big grin standing in the doorway...She helps bring the food outside, stands behind the table and starts filling plates. I get in line, get my plate with a (?) look on my face and she just smiles at me. When everyone has their plate, I expect she will now run back to her sarong. I'm wrong. She is now walking around, still nude and still smiling, asking everyone how was their meal. If they'd likeseconds. Someone tells me I'm lucky to have a wife who is so comfortable being nude. I tell him it's all actually quite new to me...
After all this, she finally fixes herself a plate and sits next to me. I ask her where her sarong is. She giggles and says she thinks she's lost it. She stays nude the rest of the evening and is actually the last person to get dressed as she stays behind to help put up the leftovers...
The moral of my story is that women"integrate" nudity differently than us guys do. Guys just want to get out and get nude. Women need a reason other than "to make my S/O happy."Why was it that my wife came to tie nudity with a "good meal"? I have no idea. Allshe saidwas that getting nude with these women tohelp make dinner....just seemed "normal". She had on her sarong; when she got into actually cooking and focused on it, she easily and effortlessly tossed her sarong aside.I've seen the same thing occur with new Moms: nudity and nurturing become intertwined. Sometimes it's physical activity...a friend of mine tried nude yoga andnow prefers to exercise nude - she went to a resort just so she could play volleyball nude. The trick, of course, is finding out what venue or activity your S/O can integrate nudity with.I would have never guessed that a kitchen would get my wife to toss it all off and not look back.What can get yours to do the same?
Some really good inut. Some of us naturally tried to go nude when we were young so it just wasn't a question that we would try it but when. In the medwest our newpapers will nt even print any national articles that indicate nudity, so how is anybody to get the idea that it might be ok
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I am planning to take a young lady who is the lead singer for one of my bands Laissez-Fayre to BALKAZ for the first time. She's known that I'm a nudist right from the time I met her which was in mid-September, but she's said that she won't perform nude herself. She is originally from Townsville and I think that some of her friends up there told her what naturism was about.
Anyway, if she enjoys herself at the venue and is willing to join in the scene then I'll tell her about this site so that she can have her say as well. :-)
Should we be encouraging girls to get drunk before they feel comfortable enough taking their clothes off? I don't agree with this being a Christian myself.
The Bible states: Habbakuk 2:15"Woe to you who make your neighbors drink, Who mix in your venom even to make them drunk So as to look on their nakedness!"
If you can't get a girl to be comfortable naked whilst she is sober, forget about introducing her to nudism. Nudism and alcohol abuse should NOT go together.
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