I think it varies from woman to woman; each has her own ideas as to the acceptability of public nudity. My wife is currently experimenting with walking around the house nude. As soon as it becomes more acceptable to her, I hope to get her nude at a local resort. We'll see. As soon as I know what motivates her to become nude....well...we'll all know.
i considered myself to be fairly attractive, during high school, the first love of my life made me feel i was an ugly duckling. others guys would asked me out and i refuse. after having an heated argument with my bf i told him to dropped me off at my home. the argument continue, so i got out of the car and begin taking one piece of clothing at a time, as each piece came off i began to feel better, once i was completely nude i felt the world off my shouders, a new life in me. i felt so alive, a stonger person that did not have to tolerate my bf actions.
If I alter the post name to be what motivates women to
become nudists, I think it becomes a much more interesting
topic, IMHO.
- And I think, at least in my experience, the answer to that
question is often: other women.
- Most of the time, men will actuallyseek out nudist
opportunities - like a personalmission. Whilst on the
other hand women are encouraged/persuaded to accompany - usually by
a peer or S/O.
- This is due to the fact that women often have a lot more
"baggage"/hang-ups than us guyswhen it comes tobeing
around nudists or publicly nude.
- What I've observed is once they get there, and have the
opportunity tosee other women being openly nude and totally
comfortable with it, well it makes an impression. Their
thoughts and feelings aboutwhat it means to be socially nude
is reexamined. - When my S/O accompanied me to Club O., she did so with the
intent of just very briefly going topfree. But after seeing
so many other women nude or topless, and talking to a few of them,
she decided to remain topfree; and eventually went nude because the
interaction with nudists dispelled her fears and
hang-ups. - Likewise myX became a nudist after interacting with a
group of women at a get-together. Same deal;as she
socialized with nudist women, she started feeling that
hersarong was just a crutch, and she let it go, quickly
embracing being nude with these women. My X got to the
opportunity to "pass it forward", by befriending, whileat
another get-together, a befuddled textile wife in attendance.
Talking and socializing with my nude wife, who was unconcerned
byher nudity,obviously triggereda positive
response; as the befuddled textile wife, who hade neverbeen
nudesocially,eventually got motivated to join her, disrobing and
spending the rest of the day nude socializing with myX (on a
side note the husband became the befuddled one when he saw his very reluctant wife
chatting completely naked with mine.)
- I've also seen it many times at the nude beach, where a group
of girlfriends show uptogether; and one goes nude -
motivating the other(s)tojoin. I thinkwe
(the men) can lead them to nudism; but it often takes other women
to lead them to nudism. Hence the importance of committed
female nudists: the growth of female nudism hinges a lot on
them.
Hello everyone,I have friends that are femael and arent nudists and im wondering how some of the female members in this site get motivated to become nude
for me it the feeling of freedom and being totally relaxed .if im honest maybe the thrill of being seen
Is the poster the female or male member of the couple?
for me it the feeling of freedom and being totally relaxed .if im honest maybe the thrill of being seen
Is the poster the female or male member of the couple?
We don't know it's a couple. Contradictory to his post, he doesn't have any photos, so one should assume he is male.
for me it the feeling of freedom and being totally relaxed .if im
honest maybe the thrill of being seen
Is the poster the female or male member of the
couple?
We don't know it's a couple. Contradictory to his post, he
doesn't have any photos, so one should assume he is
male.
I answered corally's post#92
corally Barefoot | 19 hours ago |
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Couple | Hamilton, Waikatorn New Zealand
| 47 & 43
My wife used to lock herself in her room at home in the tropics to get cool. No one else new she did this and as it was a random event she didn't know there were such as nudist.
After she met me and found out I was a nudist, the closest she would get to nude was topless. Later I got her to swim nude on a deserted beach her first time nude with me. Now she is often nude before me when we get home from shopping or visiting relatives on hot sticky days.
She has attended some social gatherings but is still a little apprehensive being its against her culture and upbringing.
Why does she get nude? She loves me and wants to do things with me so as I love being nude and attending nudist activities she joined in. Now she enjoys it especially at home when we are alone.
So many in this thread have stated that women tend to graduate into full nudity and tend to have body image issues until they become nudists. If that is so, why do they feel comfortable wearing a bikini? Most swim wear, even one piece suits, does not hide much.