I find it an uneasy feeling to not be trusted. I prefer not to go where I'm not fully trusted. I also would be quite uneasy any place where it's not fully maintained as clean nonsexual naturism. I'm afraid men only venues would attract a lot of gay types and I do not choose to be associated with that. Which I suppose makes for pretty limited potential safe places. I will be attending a nude christian meeting at a resort. I think that will put me in a safe trust inspiring position I hope. We'll see where that leads. Otherwise I'll just work my own farm as a naturist farmer in isolation.
I find it an uneasy feeling to not be trusted. I prefer not to go where I'm not fully trusted. I also would be quite uneasy any place where it's not fully maintained as clean nonsexual naturism. I'm afraid men only venues would attract a lot of gay types and I do not choose to be associated with that. Which I suppose makes for pretty limited potential safe places. I will be attending a nude christian meeting at a resort. I think that will put me in a safe trust inspiring position I hope. We'll see where that leads. Otherwise I'll just work my own farm as a naturist farmer in isolation.
Just about every place has 'gay' people. It is therefore highly advisable to stay on your farm in total isolation away from the dreaded gay people who are highly offensive to Christianity. Never mind that Christ never discriminated against anyone. Modern Christianity is full of hatred towards so many different groups of people that it no longer represents anything evenly close to the true meaning of Christianity. I personally would prefer a group of well behaved gay men and women on a beach then a group of highly judgemental so called Christians.
I find it an uneasy feeling to not be trusted. I prefer not to go where I'm not fully trusted. I also would be quite uneasy any place where it's not fully maintained as clean nonsexual naturism. I'm afraid men only venues would attract a lot of gay types and I do not choose to be associated with that. Which I suppose makes for pretty limited potential safe places. I will be attending a nude christian meeting at a resort. I think that will put me in a safe trust inspiring position I hope. We'll see where that leads. Otherwise I'll just work my own farm as a naturist farmer in isolation.
I prefer not to go where I'm not fully trusted.
Did you happen to notice when you go to your bank the armed guard looks at you?
Do you think he fully trusts you?
Ever notice the security cameras at the mall, the super market or buildings all over the city?
Nobody fully trusts anyone.
Just about every place has 'gay' people. It is therefore highly advisable to stay on your farm in total isolation away from the dreaded gay people who are highly offensive to Christianity. Never mind that Christ never discriminated against anyone. Modern Christianity is full of hatred towards so many different groups of people that it no longer represents anything evenly close to the true meaning of Christianity. I personally would prefer a group of well behaved gay men and women on a beach then a group of highly judgemental so called Christians.
Well said!
I just made a mental list and it seems I have visited at least 15 naturist clubs in Canada and the USA. I have NEVER been to a club that did not have single men there. Let me ask you this, have you actually called the club you want to visit and taken time to introduce yourself or are you just listening to grumbles from other men on the internet - many of whom have never picked up the phone and contacted a club? Yes, some clubs will require singles to be members of one of the national organizations (TNS, FCN or AANR) but since you should be anyway, I hardly see this as onerous. One club I visited required all singles, regardless of sex, be vouched for by a member except during the festival that I attended. Now that was a bit annoying but it was an evenhanded application of the rule. I have met several men at clubs who tell me they have never been turned away but that they will call the club in advance and introduce themselves by saying something like "Hi, I'm Joe So-and-so. I've been an AANR member for two years and since I'm in the area, I'd really like to come out for a day. What day would be good?" I'm not saying you will never be rejected but get out from behind your keyboard, pick up a telephone and speak to a real person and get your butt out to a club. Even clubs that seem less welcoming to singles will often relax whatever rules they have during events like car shows, music festivals, volleyball tournaments,etc. Go during one of these times. As an added bonus it's a lot easier to meet people when there is a more festive atmosphere and the club is putting its best foot forward.
If you can find a friend to take with you then things might seem less intimidating but don't stay home just because you cannot find a friend. Get out there, get involved and have fun!
In case those club acronyms are new to you (they shouldn't be) then here's what they stand for:
AANR - American Association of Nude Recreation - https://www.aanr.com/
TNS - The Naturist Society - https://www.naturistsociety.com/
FCN - Federation of Canadian Naturists - https://fcn.ca/
I hope some of this helps,
Karen
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And keeping in mind that this is an international website here are a couple of other useful sites:
BN - British Naturism - https://www.bn.org.uk/
INF - The International Naturist Federation - https://www.inf-fni.org/
That last one, the INF, is useful if you live outside of North America or intend to go travelling and need info. Most of the world's naturist/nudist clubs belong to the INF (except the Americans) and you will find links to all of the member clubs and many of their big events here.
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