I have glanced over this topic for quite a while and wondered about the thoughts of the varied respondents; it's obviously all over the range. My first impressions were that this could easily be somewhat 'colorful' but have morphed upwards towards a true appreciation of their wife. My sweetie was the most mesmerizing young lady I had ever seen when I first saw her over four decades ago. Those yellow shorts she wore while walking towards the college library on a Sunday afternoon almost made me jump out of my moving car to meet her. She looked very good as she traversed the courtyard. It would be another few months before we finally met and that confirmed my thoughts entirely "wow". The other details are not really pertinent for this forum but suffice it to say she has only gotten better. The aging of the finest wine would be the best comparator I could use. Her skinny dipping with me along with occasional nudity around the house and RV is about as far as the 'clothes free' activity goes but her elegant, refined and classy attributes are evident to all. So ... in the end, I do truly love to show off my wife.
I've shared my perspective a few pages ago; but perhaps it bears repeating...
There is a difference between wanting one's SO to be admired; and accepting (respectful) admiration he/she might inspire in others.
And admiration can be caused by many different reasons; with "physicality" only being one of them.
A couple of weeks ago my wife and I were at the resort. Later in the day, we dropped by the pool area, and she saw some of our friends swimming. I sat down; and she walked right up to the edge of the pool to talk to them. As she stood there, with our friends looking up at her, openly naked with her hands on her hips; it was clear she was making an "impression." She reminded me of some ancient Greek sculpture being admired by art aficionados.
Be it the confidence she was expressing, the individual parts or totality of the sight of her naked body; whatever might have caused the "respectful admiration" filled me with pride and love for my wife. It wasn't too long before she decided to climb down the ladder and join them; but that previous moment in time was almost like poetry to me.
Sure, when some people think of a similar situation, more salacious thoughts come to their mind. But to me, even though my wife was clearly "exposed" during that moment, it was really just a minor "detail" compared to the actual experience of her being confident and uninhibited. It only becomes salacious when the focus is on how "exposed" one's SO is to others. And that can be a slippery slope - unless both parties are after the same thing. No judgement.
Just a thought...
I of the most beautiful thing to see is a confident woman.
Believing in yourself is important ! With the world telling women that being 16 is the only way of looking.
Tell these beautiful women thank you !
Oh I remember seeing a large woman walking the board walk in California. She wore a small bikini and a guy was following her. I told my family at the restaurant table that she was beautiful ! Everyone looked at her and me and looked like I was saying. She was standing tall and believing in herself ! YEAH !
Besides the awesome feeling of being nude and free I have to admit that a big reason I love nudism is the rush I get when my wife is naked in front of others at a beach or resort.....or I guess anywhere I can get her clothes off lol.
Me.
It is the main attraction for me. I don't really enjoy being nude with others both male and female if my wife is not naked with me. I enjoy seeing other men looking at my wife, just as I do to other women. I love the female form. Call me old fashioned or a hot blooded man.
My wife when she takes her clothes of in front of other men, gains this confidence that she normally does not show with clothes on. But it really does something to me. I get off on her body confidence as she knows other men check her out. She only has small boobs but they are a great shape for their size and most men appreciate every sized boob if they look good.
For some reason I also enjoy her checking out any naked men around us. It kind of makes me a little jealous but this keeps me on my toes. If I see her checking out a guy that has a nice package and I can tell she is impressed by his attributes, I will make eye contact with her after and give her a wink that lets her know that I know she is looking at his genitals and enjoying it.
All of this emotion is always kept under wraps and bottled up as being appropriate in these situations is of the most importance and is appropriate.
What we all need to remember is that no matter what nickname people may identify with, we are all very different. There is so much grey within the nudist/naturist/swinger/exhibitionist/voyeur community. lets just say we are all sexual human beings. There are many that think they have to deny those realities in order to be able to participate in the nudist community. Some need to do so to convince their wife of the purity of the lifestyle. Whatever they have to do, so be it. I believe the most honest of them all are the ones that embrace their sexuality. I think many times men are turned on by their wife being sexy and wearing revealing clothes as it brings back the freshness of when they were first attracted to each other. It reminds us how we feel when we catch a glimpse of her not wearing panties, or a peek down her shirt. Obviously we have seen all of her for years now, but the sexiness of it all is sometime reviving and makes you feel like young lovers again. We all need to respect each other, but also need to live a little.
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