I'm a bit shy and embarrassed Lad!
Howdy everyone, and Thnx for accepting me into this wonderful group. I don't know when it all started. But from the longest that I can remember everytime I shed my clothes I get unwanted attention from my private member. Personally I'm not into penis size. I like big bellies and large thighs and calves.
I'm around 9 inches from what my friends that measured it long ago said, maybe 10. But there are many guys bigger than me. In my mind I don't think I'm that big. I appreciate the compliments and attention at times. However after a while it's Kinda embarrassing and getting So Much attention makes me want to run and hide.
I'm an Introvert and Extrovert HYBRID Personality. But most of the times as a Geek I prefer to be quite spoken and simple. Not drawing any attention to myself, unless I'm being featured in an art show. Unfortunately this draws me out to where my sensitive side and Empath part of me ends up trying to counsel other guys that size doesn't matter. Still kinda hard for me to say when I'm holding the Goods! :-/
I personally prefer medium to small penises on a large build white guy. Yes, Opposites TRULY does attract in my realm. It's like being Pushed Up on a stage too as guys like to grab it in a playful complimentary way, which I don't find offensive. It's just that I keep having to explain, ..."It's No BIG Deal!" But I guess to them it is. I try to joke about it and play it off as it's fake, or I got it at a BLUE LIGHT SPECIAL! Hehehe! Tends to loosen up the atmosphere of anyone feeling inadequate most of the times.
I'm just trying to do my best to not draw attention that's all. Just a regular guy. Nothing special. Trying to stay Humble too. I HATE guys that Brag on what they have or put others down belittling them or causing emotional / psychological damage. I'm sure this goes for gals too. But I'm gay, and I don't see or experience that side. No one should feel Less of a Man because of their Endowment! :-(
I'm just glad this group is here. For as a Nudist I just try to do my best to make others Feel Special as everyone should Feel!
Here lies the Big Kid inside wanting Everyone to have FUN, and wishing the Best for all those around him. :-)
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If I understand what you're writing correctly, you are not embarrassed about having a large dick as such, but feeling awkward about the attention this gets whenever others see you without clothes.
If this is the case, my best advice to you is to start treating all such attention as compliments aimed at you.
Also, as I suspect you don't have an erection in most situations others see you naked, it is most likely your flaccid size which others are impressed by and not your 9-10" erect length which most know nothing about.
Good luck with finding the kind of nudists that will see past your dick size, and that is a sincere wish. In some settings a big endowment confers almost celebrity status, but I suppose that gets tiring very quickly. I think of a very accomplished woman friend who has ample breasts and she sometimes has a difficult time with men who can't see past them. And she is not flaunting them, as I suspect you are not trading on your ampleness. There are a lot of us out there who wouldn't treat you differently if you were 3" vs your 10". Just as we wouldn't mention body size in general.
As for being attracted to opposites, not a surprise at all. Hope you find your guy :)
I appreciate everyone's comments in here so much. It's Overwhelmingly comforting.
And I just wanted to add that I think guys with a thick wide shorter to medium penis should get as much attention. I don't understand why folks don't draw attention to width as much? :-/
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