I have said it before and ill say it again. The mods are doing a great job. Like anything else in life there will be a few glitches with the system set up, it doesnt change the fact that the mods have made a huge difference in the way the room is moving now. I have yet to hear of anyone blocked without a warning message. So when you get a warning, guess what, your doing something wrong. Holy crap, that is simple folks. There is never going to be a way to keep everyone happy at the same time about every aspect of the site, thats not a possibility. The mods were put in place by TT1, it was not a spur of the moment thing. This has been a topic for as long as I have been here. TT1 knows who he placed in the positions, he watched them in the chatroom, he watched their posts, he knows them through messages and emails. If he did not feel as though they were right for the job then they wouldnt be mods. As has been said before, this is a private site and the owner has placed those he feels are right for the positions where he needs them. The rules are very clearly outlined before you enter the chatroom. If while in chat you receive a warning, message or anything else from a mod then simply do as you are asked. Give this a little time to have all the kinks worked out and see how much better it can be.I was interested to read your post. On my first day of being on this sit I was blocked from the chatroom, now I had no warning or from what I can see I had boken no rules. I'd been chatting to people most of the day and just before finishing decieded to try the cam option. I had only been on cam a couple of minutes and two men started asking suggestive question privately which politely declined and no one had asked to see my cam, then the chatroom closed down and it said I was banned. That was 4 days ago. By the way, I was showing my face and had a dressing gown on because it was cold.I thought this was going to be a good site to make new friends and I'm shocked with this action that seems totally unfriendly, I'll be interested to hear others views. Or will I just get banned totally for asking the question?
Is there something I need to set up on my computer in order to use the chat room? I go to chat read the rules click ok. it takes me to a page that prompts me to either read the rules or log out, but no way to chat.
Gemster you need a flash player program running to open the chat room window, another reason you can't get in is if you have Ben rooted out previously by a moderator, and that lasts for 72 hours.Thanks ausmanvic, I will check the flash player then. No I haven't been band from there, but good to know.
Thanks again I am up and running. It was the flash drive for sure.
" being gay is not about sex it is about sexuality and there is a big difference."
I wholehardheartedlyagree with thatstatement.
I never seen what happened in the room and I'm not sticking up for anyone here, I'm just offering my opinion.
I'm not homophobic as our gay friends will testify, but I do wonder why a persons sexuality is evenrelevantin a naturist chatroom.
Asking to speak to other gay men may seem like an ok request, but it in itself is wrong. Imagine me asking if there were any white/black people who want to chat, or women with DD breasts.
If you are gay and only want to chat to other gays, I'm pretty sure there will be a chat room for you somewhere.
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I'm not a mod, but I will chat to anyone, it dose not matter to me if they have nuggets or not.
I'm on a naturist website hoping to chat to other naturists. I'm not exclusive or Straighophobic as some seem to be.
My point was if you only want to interact with the one type you'll have better luck choosing a place that caterer for only that type.
" being gay is not about sex it is about sexuality and there is a big difference."I wholehardheartedlyagree with thatstatement.I never seen what happened in the room and I'm not sticking up for anyone here, I'm just offering my opinion.I'm not homophobic as our gay friends will testify, but I do wonder why a persons sexuality is evenrelevantin a naturist chatroom.Asking to speak to other gay men may seem like an ok request, but it in itself is wrong. Imagine me asking if there were any white/black people who want to chat, or women with DD breasts.If you are gay and only want to chat to other gays, I'm pretty sure there will be a chat room for you somewhere.S
Ditto
Having seen and read the rules, I would like to know why I was
kicked out last night with no explanation or reason.
Your Moderator team is hardly fostering a friendly atmosphere by banning people from the chat for unknown reasons...
notan infringement of the rules.
I'm a farmer. If someone comes on asking for farmers, I'm glad... something to talk about in common. If the conversation proceeds to um, er, access to the livestock (yes, it's happened) then, yea, that's gone over a line. But to boot somebody just for seeking out commonalities?