To Displaced Alaskan - no it wasn't you (in my opinion) that gave too strong a retort - it was #4 and #5 that could come across as kinda rude. I think most of us here HEAR where you are coming from. While some folks like 4 and 5 truly don't worry ( and agree -- ideally folks shouldn't) about penis size,I suspect the reality is MOST of us are to a degree somewhat concious of it if not indeed sort of bothered about it. All it takes is for 2 guys with 6 inches soft to walk by you on a beach, look at your privates and grin or snicker -and then you're screwed. The "problem" here is many of these guys here are saying what we are supposed to say ... its all about being free , non judgmental etc... but the painful fact it, while most nudists may feel that way, there ARE some from time to time that will view it differently and will in fact compare. No matter whether a woman or a man , even if it is just one person makes a comment or gives you a "look" , it can stick with you and always be in the back of your mind. Myself, I fall pretty much in the middle I think but I am aware that many guys are bigger there than I am. Now... will my hard on compete with theirs ..probably so .... but that will likely (lol) never be a known fact. I think my point is to validate your feelings that I suspect many of us are aware of our manhood size and wish we were bigger there (since that's why Playgirl, porn etc and women that say "I don't want anything less than 8inches" tell us ). I think that it is indeed a FACT that pretty much all men- whether they admit it or not .... str8 , gay, in between will admit they have , at times at least, checked out other guys dicks in the locker room to see how they themselves stack up. That a stinging fact for those guys on the smaller side. However .... I think ALL the men who have posted here are saying (in various ways) ... don't let it define you, try to relax and enjoy being nude and the freedom it offers, have confidence . The vast majority of men and women will not care, yeah...there may be a few who do - but I like to believe in karma for those folks ;) LOL.. Just take a breath, relax, move on past it and have fun being nude.
To clarify a possible misunderstanding on my response, the first sentance I gave was a response to one guy only who apologized for too tart an answer and I didn't think his response was too tart. My response to him was the FIRST sentance ONLY. Sentance #2 and all the rest are to the OP.
Totally average. Not huge, but not tiny once in action. I am a grower not shower, though. Toss in cool water and I might look like an acorn. That part did worry me at first, if I am honest. Now, though, swing free and easy no matter how low I am or am not hanging.
I'm a Free swinger I recon from nude mostly offshore to being raised by my uncle as a nudist
Was mostly bullied offshore Fer being hairy'
An circumcised an smaller
Was called Pocket Rocket Le'Roy
Heheh
I've read the replies and a few seem to misunderstand the question. I was asking, if you not (what society considers normal) and you went nude for the first time, did you feel (because of what you 'may' have experienced in the past) just either nervous or like you 'might' be judged?
I've been a nudist for a long time but growing up when I did, guys made fun of other guys (like in gym class in school where you shared a shower room. I had to shower facing the wall after taking off my towel then, because I knew how guys were. I didn't care if they saw my back, we all have a rear.
So, when I finally got older and went to a nudist resort, despite being nude at home and swimming outback when no one was home, I did 'kind of' wonder if anything similar would happen , in that other's would make me feel uncomfortable. Thankfully they didn't and I found I was more in tune with other nudists than people in the so called 'normal' world'
Yes, society makes people feel 'small' inside because we all aren't over 5 inches down there (or in the case of women, not all 36 in the chest or bigger). I've long since accepted my body and so has my lady, who loves me exactly the way I am. Anyone else opinon of me in the non-nudist world, no longer matters. :)
I'm a nudist with a small uncut penis.I've visited both nudist beaches aswell as a nudist club.From my first time nude to this current day I feel nervous when stripping off.It often takes me 10-15 minutes to find the courage to actually stand up and make my way along the beach.Once it's done however I feel great.Not once have I heard a comment,nobody cares.I've stopped and had conversations with young women,older women,attractive couples,couples where the guy is hung,people of all shapes and sizes.I've even bumped into some friends of mine which was very nerve racking.The wife is gorgeous and he's twice my size but nothing was said.To all small guy's i say give nudism a go.You'll soon realise that you've been worrying about nothing at all.
I was self conscious about size before visiting beaches and clothing optional resorts, once there, size made no difference.
Was there guys with swinging larger, sure, but there were guys my size and turns out guys smaller too.
I had a great time, talked to a lot of people, the self consciousness went away and I did not even notice when it left.
Made the next visits no problem.
It was definitely a concern before I went to my first nude beach. I was young (well, younger) and had no idea what to expect because I'm less fortunate than others, but once I was there my mind was at ease. No one cares. That's the beauty of the nudist lifestyle, there are people of all shapes, sizes, and lengths, and no one cares how you 'measure up', because everyone else is just as vulnerable as you are.
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