Below the Hot Tub Bubbles
Sooo. on our last vavation we went to Caliente, which we enjoyed very much. On night after some dancing and drinking we retired to the hot tub to relax a bit before going to bed. We had met two other couples and on single guy who was nice and not pushy. We were huddled in one end of the hot tub in a circle chatting when I feltmy hubandlet his hand rome arounf my bottom and he did gently roam around underneath. We are not swingers and on the whole I am not even into PAD for the most part, but due to the lack of inabitions brought on by alcohol and the good vibes of the night I did not give him my usual face of scorn. We hung out for a while chit chatting and then headed back to our golf cart to head back to our condo. In the golf cart I chided John for being a bad boy in the hot tub, he laughed and had no idea what I was talking about, I became embarrased and let it drop. the next morning I asked him about it and he told me it had not been him but must have been ed the single guy standigng on the otherside, I was pretty embarassed, John said it was no big deal that he would talk to Ed later that day when we saw him again.I asked him not to it would mortify me. John blew it off. Was I wrong?
Ed probably didn't think his groping was inappropriate considering the location, Caliente, and that he most likely did not sense any resistance from Amy.
andI'm not defending or condoning Ed's actions. I'm merely stating there are a lot of blurred lines in this scenario.
Well said. So well said in fact, that I wish I'd put it that way.
There's reason when a location is dropped from AANR endorsement.
As said before this is a very grey area. A loving pat between parnters is ok but a groop from a stranger is a no no unless you in that sort of place for that sort of thing otherwise do as I do and keep you arms and hands in full view all the time that way you can't be blamed
Being touched without consent is inappropriate behavior. However, bring alcohol into the mix and inhibitions tend to relax with the result being liberties being taken that would have not been normally. At our club we restrict our drinking to our campsite with each other. I have heard stories about people getting a bit too frisky at dances there was drinking and partying. One Sunday there was even a huge argument between two men because one husband had sex with another guy's girlfriend the night before after a dance.
You are not wrong to be offended and violated. Let hubby know. We've never been to Caliente, so I can't judge them. Just watch out for yourself, restrict the alcohol and know who is around you.
Terry
Are you really that stupid? You quite deliberately accused her of lying. It wasn't the answer to her question that was offensive, it was the accusation of lying. Get a clue.
Fatnudist, I'm a moderator in the chat room and I suggest you stop with the insults. Here, and in other posts on the forum.
To paraphrase Oregongirl, I didn't know asking a simple question was an insult. (of course, accusing the OP of lying was quite alright?)
Does anyone else here have issues about discussing a situation here, on a nudist site, NOT a swingers site,about swinging ettiquette, as well as someonewho putthemselves in an awkward position because ofTHEIR choice of locations to visit AND theirconsumption of alcoholic beverages?
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I did not mean to turn this into a political debate over swinging vs nudism I know from being around both groups that kind of rhetoric is way above my pay grade, further everyone has come to the assumption that Ed eas a swinger, I don't know and I really don't care he is or is not it is moot to the point. The reason i told the story was to affirm my feelings that I should have stooped the iniatation, but because i did not I should not sit around and feel guilty about it and wanted to know if anyone else had been in my shoes before.
Fatnudist---come on. "Are you really that stupid?" Do you really think that is a simple question that is not a blatant insult? There are much better ways to politely discuss the situation. I always try to be a gentleman and I encourage you to do the same. Like I tell my kids, "Always strive to be the better man and you will never really lose."
I guess defending someone who was called a liar was not the gentlemanly thing to do in your eyes. And if you had comprehended all the posts, you would have realized I was pointing out the insulting behavior of another.
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