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Thanks! You offered a reply but didn't answer the question/questions and that's fine. I don't expect you to know the answers, it was more rhetorical anyway. You can all go back to your jewelry discussion. It's run it's course for me!

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Genital jewellery isnt very common in NZ as far as I know. Perhaps more common in the gay community than in general.

I can only recall several examples, one large Prince Albert piercing, several women with clitorial rings, and, slightly outside this topic, a penis tattoo, all at a naturist club.

There was a debate five years ago in the Naturist community about rings, etc. There was a strong feeling expressed that those wearing jewellery were not truly naked. The letters printed in 'Gonatural' were quite astonishing and I thought very conservative. I would feel it is up to the individual really just as shaving body hair is treated. On that last point it is rare today to see naturist club members with pubic hair. Curiously no one shaves their head.

One thing about the Prince Albert, though I suppose you are not supposed to pay attention to this kind of detail, is that it was actually quite becoming and suited his penis.

Interestingly at various hippie events where there is common nudity, such as Kiwiburn, and rainbow gatherings, I have yet to see any jewellery being worn by males. Occasionally you will see women with genitial piercings and or shaved. Those attending these events are generally in the 25-40 bracket, so it may be an age question. At the last Kiwiburn in January this year some 1100 took part on the naked run around the remains of the effigy: I saw no examples of jewellery and no instances of shaving . At the rainbow held some weeks before, there were a number of participants casually naked during the course of the day and again none were shaved and none wore jewellery.

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I have a PA.I like It.I don't really care if anyone else does.I don't shave my body. I shave my head because after 70 years there isn't much there.I am very laid back and very accepting of other people and what they like or dislike.If you don't like it don't look. Little Johnny won't be traumatized for life because He saw It. For Gods sake he just saw a hot woman walk by naked. If he wants to know why tell him I have it because I like it or she doesn't like to wear anything. I would be more upset telling him why someone would go into a school and kill kids for nothing.If my PA is the most awful thing he sees in his young life then God bless him .

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what would you think if your wife / girlfriend walked around nude with her stomach painted with the words "inset dick here " and an arrow pointing between her legs ? after all its just art right ?we all know better than that ,just like we all know whats on the mind of a man that walks around with his decorated dick

No, you don't. First of all, genital peicings have a variety of functions, aesthetics, sizing, and can be discrete or prominent. People peirce for many reasons. Exhibition is one of them. But not all who peirce do so to say 'screw me' (in fact, that is not the meaning of any of it, not even remotely). None of the genital peircings are for display only. They all serve a sensual or practical purpose. One, the PA is a military solution to equestrian issues and men's bodies. This is a wide cultural movement that draws on many cultures and has many facets. It's frustrating to see nudists blithely dumping an entire sector of folks as perverts when the same is done to us... out of ignorance I would add.

Suggestions that a clitoral or labia peircing equates to an invitation to barely consentual sex (insert dick here) tattooed on a woman is repulsive and completely out of line. It's frankly misogynist. You'd have us believe that no one understands genital sex function unless jewelry? The genitals are already evolved to garner the attention of suitors. It's OK to not like the practice. It's OK to ask it be excluded from nudist space.

It's not ok to make such unecessarily nasty claims without any care or concern. It's painfully obvious when a man or less frequently a woman is showing off. Swagger. Thrust. Swing. Leer. Touching. None of this is the result of genital jewelry. Those people came like that. If they are just moving through space and not doing a penile pantomime it's just metal on skin at the regular sizes.

And finally with respect to penis adornments. No, not every penis accessory means my dick wants to party all the time. Every human culture has tattooed peirced modded implanted on penises. Once you get a penis peircing you need to leave it in or it heals over. Either folks are planning their perversion well in advance or perhaps it's just a part of the whole and no big deal.

I also let women decide what to wear or not.

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They both sound like walking wind chimes! :DDDand he swears he is not trying to attract attention...lolgot to admit i am perplexed by the "ball stretchers " and to think we all thought the "pet rock " was dumbfor the life of me i can't think of even one reason for them other than not wanting to walk around carrying a sign that reads"look at me i'm the dumbest smuck your ever going to see in your life time "

It was a bit of a silly question. Here's the thing. You can find out why people wear ball stretchers using the Internet. Your being unable to think of a reason isn't the standard by which reality is parsed. Thank dog. These are first and foremost medical devices solving actual medical issues. People modify and invent from existing things, new things. It's a thing guys enjoy. Don't worry about it unless you screw up your scrotum. Then be sure to not wear the device you have no idea what it's for. We told this guy already it had no place on the beach. Your attitude does nothing to curb behaviour. It inflames and insults.

Is it possible for you to offer an opinion that is supportive and exemplary or must it be filled with derision and scorn? I imagine being this righteous must be a real chore.

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i did an web search for "ball stretcher" just to find out what the hell they are :the next time anyone says that its not sexual , just read the 1st sentenceinstead of calling them "ball stretchers" i think i'll just call them moron identifiers ( it just seems to fit better )Ball StretcherDefinition - What does Ball Stretcher mean?A ball stretcher is a male sex toy that is used to stretch and elongate the scrotum. These devices are meant to wrap around the base of the scrotum and may come with attached cock rings. Ball stretchers may be made from materials like leather, metal or silicone, and they vary in size and by how far they stretch the scrotum. Some ball stretchers also act as weights, and some have rings to which weight may be attached.Although ball stretchers are sometimes used during cock-and-ball torture scenes, many men also find the sensation of having their testicles gently pulled away from the body very pleasurable. Regularly using ball stretchers can also permanently elongate the scrotum,and these sick puppies want to wear them in our resorts ? HELL NO !!!Ladyswhen you see these things in a nudist resort , don't get up and walk out of the resort , get up and RUN out of the resortthese aren't just sex toys , they are very weird /sick sex toys

Oh good lord. Really. Do you want us to burn the fellow in effigy or will the Scarlet Letter suffice? Apparently you've found just enough internet to go on a bully tear of unnecessary hatred. Nudists and naturists more than almost any other social group should be aware of the effects of deeply hurtful rhetoric around perversion sexual deviance and sickness. It's not on to sling that casually about because you feel the need to justify judgmental rage. You are old enough to remember how we were persecuted using these lies.

Sex toys and mod devices have a medical background more often than not. Scrotal elongation, urethral dilation, speculums, plugs, catheters, subscisions and so on may not appeal but they all come from gynecology urology and proctology. Next you'll be telling us modern medicine is a sickness. The dude asked a bad question and is not really in the loop. Thats enough. Reading this bile turns anyone new off naturism hardcore.

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Honestly I think genital jewelry would be inappropriate in a nudist setting as it draws attention to "sexual parts" However Jewelry such as earrings and lip piercings are cool. I rarely wear jewelry unless its a ring or something I know is hard to get lost, but I guess depends on rules and regulations of the resort.

i've already said genital jewelry is problematic and that clubs can enforce a code about such and are justified. But the idea that genital peircings are sexualized but genitals alone not and then lip peircings not and ears not bears scrutiny. The history of the earring and earring design is bound up in courtesanship, prostitution, the hareem, ladies of leisure and so on. The history of peirced ears is a history of the sexualization of the face along with makeup and lipstick. Lip peirings are designed to bring the tongue out playfully. It's sexual in origin.

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I really have no opinion on this since I don't care what people do to their bodies and it's not my business. But I saw this today and had to post it. Guess I relate at my age I suppose.

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gosh same here do not why some people get so bent out of shape over jewelry ! too each its own long as we naked at a resort we not care what others do we just enjoy ourselves

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A friend of mine joined the local nude resort. I told her about some of the characters there and so I told her about the guy with several piercings in his scrotum. Seriously, it sounds like some cowboy walking around with spurs when he walks. She thought I was exaggerating.

So, one day, the two of us are by the pool. I hear the ring and chunk of the guys jewelry. She said Im not going to look! Im not going to look!

I know that some resorts are edgy about body jewelry. I get why to a small extent, since some of it (like the guy above) seems to be a bit exhibitionist: look at my cock! When I first started exploring nudism online, I noticed a lot of conversations about tattoos and clubs that banned members with them. I dont hear that tattoo conversation any more, but I wonder how many younger people that kept out of the resorts.

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