Dillusions of Grandeur
Not sure how to start this bulletin. I guess over the past month I have become increasing upset over the people on this site. Not of because who they are but because who they pretend they are. I am not sure why, and people on my friends list qualify for this, are pretending to be someone they are not. I joined this site to meet people just like me, nudist, who enjoy the lifestyle and who want to talk and share our interests. What I have found is starting to make me feel that maybe this world is now just so phoney and superficial that people, and I mean real true people, do not exist anymore. Why join this site and lie. You lie about your age. Do not say you are 35 when you are actually 45-50. I dont care and I dont think anyone on this site who is here for what it was developed really cares. Dont say you are 160 when you really weight 225 or more. Dont post pictures of someone that is not you and then you try to convice the person when they see you on cam thats really you. Do you think people are really stupid that we believe that. Honesty is what this site should be about. Remove the clothes and what do you have? You have the real true person. But what I have found is that you remove the clothes and the lies start. Dont you think your other friends talk about you? And we share and compare and find the differences. God its so heartbreaking cause I actually have meet some really nice wonderful people that I know are real and I never want to lose them from my life. But I go thru my friends list and I find most of the people there arent who they say. I dont give a dam if you are married, if you are gay, if you are bi, if you are str8 just be you ok. Dont be a man pretending to be str8 when you arent. Dont be a man pretending to be a woman when your not. Dont pretend period. I think my friends that asked me the 10 questions were suprised and shocked at my answers. Well one thing anyone gets from me is honesty. Sometimes people dont like it in the chat room but sorry if you ask you get my response. And I have found that this applies to certified as well as non certified people. So before you waste anyones time anymore think about it. Think how hurtful your actions are becoming to those that are on this site to make friends and talk about life. Think how when you pretend you arent doing anyone a favor. Think about how empty your life is if you really have to do that. To my dear friends whose company that I enjoy here and actually know in real life I treasure you. I would not change anything and I am enjoying getting to know you so much. Just wish that maybe somehow everyone can feel as we do. That being who you are is actually what counts the most. Not some pretend ideal that you think I want but instead the real true you. Once everyone finds that in themselves then we get what this site actually is named truenudist. These comments are my own feelings and please feel free to message me with any comments you may have I am open to that. Thanks for reading and enjoy your day for every thing you can get from it.
Love Jeff
Wow, well put Jeff and you are 100% correct. We are picky about who we befriend because we are looking for actual people. It's a shame that we have to do this.We would love to just add any person who asked to be our friends, but we cannot. It's not a perfect world unfortunately.Is not being a nudist mean that you are comfortable with who you are body and soul.Anyway, thank you for posting this, though nothing will change, it needed to be said. K&J
I tend to agree with you, Jeff. The only problem is that this is endemic throughout the whole internet. You just have to treat each person as who they claim to be, until proven different. Otherwise, you'll spend so much time looking for the man behind the curtain, that you miss someone that may be standing right in front of you.
Very well said. I have met some very nice people on here that I can tell are who they say the are. I am looking forward to meeting some in person and wish I some of the others were not so far away. True friends do not care about age, body size, or any of the usual classifications. They care about the person and what you have in common with them.
Thomas
Well at least you're not alone Jeff! there are at least seven of us here! :)
Very well said, you are dead right, the only way is to talk,
most are not good enough liars to maintain it for long,
but it is a sad state of affairs, and annoying to have your time wasted.
Phil.
Very true post, Jeff. We insist on some form of dialog exchange before
we add any one to our friends list. And more than just one email The few times we've made an exception to the rule
we've been very disappointed. Agree with Phil, no one can keep up the artifice for long, the phonies always end up "outing" themselves.
Jen
Agree with Phil, no one can keep up the artifice for long, the phonies always end up "outing" themselves.Jen
Yup, they come and go, and then we wait for the next influx of Trolls to infest the site, but us true genuine folk learn to outride the storm and will never surrender to their pathetic attempt to ruin our enjoyment.
Agree with Phil, no one can keep up the artifice for long, the phonies always end up "outing" themselves.JenYup, they come and go, and then we wait for the next influx of Trolls to infest the site, but us true genuine folk learn to outride the storm and will never surrender to their pathetic attempt to ruin our enjoyment.
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Hi I'm new to truenudists so I have not had any encounters on here yet. My experience with nudist has been at places where are you meeting nudist in real life not online. I have found that these people tend to be more honest then the people that I meet in the "normal clothed places". I was hoping that this would be a place to meet other likewise people. I think that if a person is confirmed then you know that they are more likely to be truthfully. If they are not confirmed then maybe that should be a flag that you might not be communicating with who you think you are. Meeting in person is how I would prefer to meet people, however, that is not always possible. I would like to meet people in an environment where we could be nude and be able to relax and enjoy things without having the type of people around who have a problem with nudity.
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