Introductions

Hello everyone. My name is Christian and I have been a nudist since I was 17. I've enjoyed being naked my whole life but it wasn't until high school that I knew what it was. I had my first gay sexual experience when I was 19 but wasn't sure if I was gay or what I was. I ended up getting married to a woman but it turns out we weren't really meant for each other. I moved back to Iowa and found the love of my life who happens to be a man 35 years older than me. We got married this past August and I couldn't be happier. We both live as nudists. I may be young but I have had some experiences that most youngins don't have. Ask me anything and I would be glad to answer.

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Hi, Christian! A heart-warming story there that is almost word for word mine. Only, I am yet to find the gay love of my life :)

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Thanks for your support! We are happy. As for those that have not found their life partner yet, the advice I have is to just be as happy and confident in who you are by yourself and the right person will come along. There's also nothing wrong with living life as a single person with great friends. Life doesn't have a manual and you deserve to make it the way you want.

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Do you feel your husband is the one because he is gay and nudist or is that just details of what's a true soul connection? I've always been attracted to men and women but for different reasons and am now a single dad a bit overwhelmed with raising kids alone. I no longer focus on gender or sexuality as much as connection, and soul connection at that. As a man I feel we need a brotherhood of men, and if that has a sexual expression or not is negotiable. As a person I feel we need a soul partner, which is a connection deeper than sexuality or gender.
When I was really young, there was a popular song about limbo dancing: How low can you go? It's time baby to know, how low can you go?
Now I feel that applies to nudity. Taking off my clothes is easy, but how naked and open can I really be? We have only one chance in this life, so how do we live it with others in a way that builds connections and freedom rather than fear and judgment? Nudity is a wonderful lesson and nudists make great teachers.

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Very happy to hear your story!! Nudeism is a genuine way to freely express yourself. Now youre happily married to a nudist and compatible moreso than your previous marriage. Im in Davenport, also maried to a man, and nude right now in our private patio. I hope this finds you and your husband well, cheers!!! Oh, Im 24 years older than my husband, weve been a couple for a 5 years and dated for 8.

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