Introductions
Hello everyone. My name is Christian and I have been a nudist since I was 17. I've enjoyed being naked my whole life but it wasn't until high school that I knew what it was. I had my first gay sexual experience when I was 19 but wasn't sure if I was gay or what I was. I ended up getting married to a woman but it turns out we weren't really meant for each other. I moved back to Iowa and found the love of my life who happens to be a man 35 years older than me. We got married this past August and I couldn't be happier. We both live as nudists. I may be young but I have had some experiences that most youngins don't have. Ask me anything and I would be glad to answer.
Thanks for your support! We are happy. As for those that have not found their life partner yet, the advice I have is to just be as happy and confident in who you are by yourself and the right person will come along. There's also nothing wrong with living life as a single person with great friends. Life doesn't have a manual and you deserve to make it the way you want.
Do you feel your husband is the one because he is gay and nudist or is that just details of what's a true soul connection? I've always been attracted to men and women but for different reasons and am now a single dad a bit overwhelmed with raising kids alone. I no longer focus on gender or sexuality as much as connection, and soul connection at that. As a man I feel we need a brotherhood of men, and if that has a sexual expression or not is negotiable. As a person I feel we need a soul partner, which is a connection deeper than sexuality or gender.
When I was really young, there was a popular song about limbo dancing: How low can you go? It's time baby to know, how low can you go?
Now I feel that applies to nudity. Taking off my clothes is easy, but how naked and open can I really be? We have only one chance in this life, so how do we live it with others in a way that builds connections and freedom rather than fear and judgment? Nudity is a wonderful lesson and nudists make great teachers.
Very happy to hear your story!! Nudeism is a genuine way to freely express yourself. Now youre happily married to a nudist and compatible moreso than your previous marriage. Im in Davenport, also maried to a man, and nude right now in our private patio. I hope this finds you and your husband well, cheers!!! Oh, Im 24 years older than my husband, weve been a couple for a 5 years and dated for 8.