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My main purpose here is to talk to real people that go nude whether if they show their face or not. I don't even care about sexuality, married or dating or single. I just want to chat in private with someone and get to know that person. Plus I don't judge others. I just want to get along with others on here too. Is that too much to ask for someone to talk to me in private?

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My main purpose here is to talk to real people that go nude whether if they show their face or not. I don't even care about sexuality, married or dating or single. I just want to chat in private with someone and get to know that person. Plus I don't judge others. I just want to get along with others on here too. Is that too much to ask for someone to talk to me in private?

Yes, for some it can be too much to ask.

It would be like going to a nudist resort and asking some one to go somewhere private where you can talk to them alone. If it is some one you know and they enjoy private conversations with you, thats one thing. But if you are just meeting them it sounds more like you have another agenda.

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I get it that most times that private conversations anywhere can be nervous. I would be too but I would like to chat in private in the chat room on here no matter the gender, sexuality, married, or single. That's is what I prefer to do on here anyway but not at a nude resort though

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My point is, let people get to know you before asking them to chat privately.

If you read AndyDi (post #24) reply, you get a since why people are so cautious.

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I gave up the chat room, almost everyone who private messaged me was after creepy sex chat.

I always checked the profile before answering a hi, and even if the profile looked sensible it soon became clear the other person was not a naturist, just an idiot in a chat room with an agenda.

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I gave up the chat room, almost everyone who private messaged me was after creepy sex chat.I always checked the profile before answering a hi, and even if the profile looked sensible it soon became clear the other person was not a naturist, just an idiot in a chat room with an agenda.

I always check before saying hi if they allow single men too. If they look fake, I won't private them either. I even won't mind messaging outside of the chat room too

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What I mean is that so many married couples, married women and single women don't want single men. Well I am real even though my face is hidden on my profile pic but most nudists don't want single men like me. Maybe I don't get it. I think it's judgmental towards real men that want to talk in pm to real people either married or single. I like talking in pm but I guess most don't. I even understand that most men can be fake too. I am sorry but it's getting frustrating that most married people and single women don't want to chat with real single guys in pmHere's the ugly truth:1) yes, you are single but that isn't all that sends up flags of caution.2) Your face in your profile pic is obscured. Hmmmm caution flag3) In 5 months that you've rejoined; you've joined over a dozen groups and have posted some comments but they all seem to be on masturbation and sin. Hmmmm another caution flag.4) Your willingness to chat via Skype and Gmail is another caution flag.Why not contribute, get involved in grouping discussions and let other members get to know who you are via various discussions other than masturbation and sin. The need for anonymity is shared by many members here and I'm friends with some but I didn't become friends with them until I read lots of what they had to say on many, many topics.You need to allow others to get to know you and from what I see on your profile and read of the comments on threads that you've posted, it sends up caution flags for a great many people/members.Just food for thought!

I appreciate your reply on this subject. It seems to be difficult to find relevant topics to participate in, however, Im new to the site and still navigating. Once again, thanks for your reply. Its helpful.

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What I mean is that so many married couples, married women and single women don't want single men. Well I am real even though my face is hidden on my profile pic but most nudists don't want single men like me. Maybe I don't get it. I think it's judgmental towards real men that want to talk in pm to real people either married or single. I like talking in pm but I guess most don't. I even understand that most men can be fake too. I am sorry but it's getting frustrating that most married people and single women don't want to chat with real single guys in pmHere's the ugly truth:1) yes, you are single but that isn't all that sends up flags of caution.2) Your face in your profile pic is obscured. Hmmmm caution flag3) In 5 months that you've rejoined; you've joined over a dozen groups and have posted some comments but they all seem to be on masturbation and sin. Hmmmm another caution flag.4) Your willingness to chat via Skype and Gmail is another caution flag.Why not contribute, get involved in grouping discussions and let other members get to know who you are via various discussions other than masturbation and sin. The need for anonymity is shared by many members here and I'm friends with some but I didn't become friends with them until I read lots of what they had to say on many, many topics.You need to allow others to get to know you and from what I see on your profile and read of the comments on threads that you've posted, it sends up caution flags for a great many people/members.Just food for thought!

I appreciate your reply on this subject. It seems to be difficult to find relevant topics to participate in, however, Im new to the site and still navigating. Once again, thanks for your reply. Its helpful.

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Also, single men always seem to want to make friends only with couples, I wonder why that is when there seem to be so many lonely men.

Why the desperate attempts, when the chat room is full with (genuine single nice nudist) blokes who just want to chat .

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Also, single men always seem to want to make friends only with couples, I wonder why that is when there seem to be so many lonely men.Why the desperate attempts, when the chat room is full with (genuine single nice nudist) blokes who just want to chat .

Exactly! Chat with EVERYONE and have fun. Keep and open mind and only befriend those worthy of friendship. Let go of the rampant homophobia that exists here as well as in society. Stand up to those who are closed minded, judgemental, and form a chat room lynch mob to shout down and shut down anyone who dares to start any kind of conversation beyond "naked hugs and cyber kisses". Just take control of the situation and go after what you want in life as it sure won't come to you and fall into your lap.

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