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I always want to be nude but can't. My disapproving adult son lives with me and I have to be dressed while he is around. But most days I just get out of bed (sleeping naked until late), shower and stay naked until he comes home from work in the evening. I do like to be outside naked but often, here in the North of England, it's too cold. So I go on many nude holidays, often in Southern Europe where I can be naked 24/7, if only for a week.
You'll have to forgive , but if it is our house and you pay the bills, then it should be your Rules. I know we love our kids, but they should move out when adults to make there way in life. As a loving parent I can understand to give a helping hand, and or short stays equals compromise, however; long term you should be comfortable within your own home. He should understand that........ then again I don't know your circumstance. When mine come to visit I will where clothing, although not too much and am ready for them to leave after 4 days... but I do love them. Hope you can come to an agreement.
Olly, I appreciate your situation, and have a similar problem when the in-laws come to stay. They know but definitely do not approve.
At the same time, Mar's position on this is relaxing. She has always been fine about me being naked when we're alone, but recently become more relaxed towards my dress when her parents are present. In fact she has come to slightly resent their attitude, especially her mum who can be quite extreme.
When was the last time you had the conversation with your son. While he may still not like you being naked, it may be that the lines could have blurred slightly. Respect works both ways.
I always want to be nude but can't. My disapproving adult son lives with me and I have to be dressed while he is around. But most days I just get out of bed (sleeping naked until late), shower and stay naked until he comes home from work in the evening. I do like to be outside naked but often, here in the North of England, it's too cold. So I go on many nude holidays, often in Southern Europe where I can be naked 24/7, if only for a week.
Is he comfortable with you wearing a kilt or wrap or does he want you to wear regular. clothes '
I appreciate your closeness with your son and helping him out. But I would encourage to have an intelligent conversation with him about why seeing his own father nude makes him uncomfortable. Don't settle for vague answers. Press him for specifics. Rooming together with anyone requires working things out so both are happy.
Unless the adult son is paying rent I really don't see that he has much of a voice in the issue. He does have the option of moving out and that is what I would encourage. Now if it is his house and you are just living there then that could be another story.
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