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A balanced site with the appropriate rules and the members' proper conduct should reach a 50-50 presence of both genders. That would be ideal.
(And No, I don't want to show my face to all of you because I don't trust all of you. There is a photo in my media for certified friends only.)

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Yeah, he has already establish 4000 fuckin groups as it is, and apparently alot of people are saying he is quite creepy, requesting personal pix of people, supposedly before they can join, or something.I dont go by everything I hear, but the loser blocked me for having an incomplete or blank profile.

Sounds like he did you a favour, to me.

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JeepNude- you are the case in point. Leave your judgments at the door. Just because someone posts a nude headless photo doesn't not make them a Pervert. Get over your egocentric view of thinking that the world has to abide by what you think is correct and accept others views as well.

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Allow me to express a contrarian view:First, if you are concerned about showing your face (especially on an internet site), thats okay. Posting a headless photo, however, is like wearing a ski mask at a nudist resort. Ridiculous and a bit creepy.Second, posting a photo showing just your genitals is not about being sex-positive or body-positive; it is a dick pic and belongs on a dick pic website, not here.Third, the freedom of nudism is not an excuse for antisocial behavior. I have joined other men and women at a number of nudist events and venues over the years to participate in some common activity that we all enjoy (yoga, painting, swimming, poetry reading) and no one has EVER interrupted a conversation to talk about his penis, what kind of breasts/nipples/labia he likes, how he likes to shave his balls, masturbate in the shower at the gym with the door open, or any kind of sex act. It just does not happen. Here, however, ...Normal, healthy adults like to have sex. Duh. And normal, healthy adults are not ashamed to have sex. Double duh. But normal, healthy adults also know that there is a time and place for everything.Acting decently and expecting others to do the same is not sex-shaming. This is true whether you are clothed or not. The point of nudism is that you still behave decently even though you are nude. The anonymity of the internet does not change that.So ask yourself, why am I here? Is it to enjoy good times, sun and fun with other like-minded grownups? Or is it to eventually turn the conversation to your favorite (solo) sex act and post a dick pic?That answer determines what the culture of this site will be.

Slamecksam-

First- How is posting a "headless" photo antisocial.. ? Some people prefer to keep aspects of their life private while trying to connect to a group that associates with their private life- seeking friends to email with, 1 to 1 video chat with, and the like. The analogy of "wearing a ski mask at a nude resort" is absurd. A Nude Resort is a private club with a fence around it most of the times, you have to be a member as well most of the time to keep out "gawkers". At a nude resort you can share a private aspect of your life with like-minded people. Please find something else to make better comparison.

Second- If the focus of a photo is just a DICK, then yes, it is a Dick Pic. But if other parts of your body like your chest, legs, arms, ..etc are in the picture as well, it is NOT a Dick Pic. It is simply a headless photo. You can see the same in a tattoo magazine- there are headless photos of various body parts, including genitalia and breasts, without exposing the identity of an individual.

Third- So you have join a nudist event or club (mostly a private event or club with a fee or membership), good for you.!! So you have varied conversations about topics of interest, another good for you.!! But you still seem to equate your own personal views about what YOU deem as nudity or a naturalist. Does ever single person act the same everywhere..?? NOPE. Those conversations that you list above do occur at events, rare, but they do occur. If you try to tell me that you have NEVER looked at an other person at a nude event and had an inappropriate thought I will call your bluff on that one. You may not VERBALIZE it, but it happens.. as you also said, it is human nature to do so.

Sounds like you need to decide whether you want to be part of the problem on this site, or support those who struggle with the idea having their personal life exposed with the fear of a lost career or position. How about we ALL get to know each other on a personal level and support each other as well. After-all, if you don't like what is being served at this party, move on to a different dish..!!

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My anger comes from people who use naturism as an excuse for their own personal perversions.I understand people will disagree, thats their right.Doesn't mean Im wrong.The thing about morons.... they dont know they are morons.

More "name calling".. :-/ Self reflect some time and figure out what it is about yourself that you don't like. Maybe you can accept other more openly after that. ;-)

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Puritanism is the great haunting fear that somebody, somewhere might be happy.- H. L. Menkenjournalist and social critic, 1880-1956relevant now as ever

Well Put, Andy..!! Very relevant, especially these days..!! Thank you.

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Where do all these self righteous people come from sticking up for the perverted hoard.

Through twenty years experience of social naturism Ive earned the right to have an opinion on the mental capacity of some so called naturist on this site and the drivel they post.

Ill continue to call out the idiots who confuse the lifestyle I love with their lack of ability to find a place on the internet for their particular kink. Using google isnt rocket science. If you want to discuss peeing in sinks and you settle on a naturist forum to do it, youre a fucking moron.

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" The thing about morons.... they dont know they are morons."

StevieKorna- self reflect man.. name calling never works... it only makes you look less than.

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What do you call people who get quotes and who typed them mixed up?

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Where do all these self righteous people come from sticking up for the perverted hoard.Through twenty years experience of social naturism Ive earned the right to have an opinion on the mental capacity of some so called naturist on this site and the drivel they post.Ill continue to call out the idiots who confuse the lifestyle I love with their lack of ability to find a place on the internet for their particular kink. Using google isnt rocket science. If you want to discuss peeing in sinks and you settle on a naturist forum to do it, youre a fucking moron.

Stevie-- You have a right to an opinion, Sure, but NO ONE, esp. YOU has "earned the right" to judge the mental capacity of an other individual. Do you have a degree in Psychology, other than arm-chair Psychology..?? Also, NO ONE, esp. YOU has the right to call people names here. You can make your point without useless, as you call it "drivel."

You want some respect my man..., than show others some respect..!! It will go a long way in your future. ;-)

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