Sunday check in
Getting ready to watch mass on TV.Nude in the study now, but will put on just shorts in case our grandson wakes up.
Teaching him by example that there's something wrong with seeing the natural body. That's the message I got as a child when all the adults in my life were careful to stay dressed around me. It so messed up my thinking on the subject it took me 35 years at least to get it resolved and discover the mistake my parents made on it. Children desperately need exposure to naked adults in normal everyday life, being very careful not to sexualize it.
but anyway. I'm doing fine. gardening naked every chance I get. But other things need doing too, hard to spend full time on it like I'd like to.
Got to be careful mate. Nice that you get to spend some time with him.
Recently I have been getting a little too much.
School is closed, and his father ( who lives with us), mother and stepfather (his primary home) and other grandmother are all working, so my wife and I are taking care of him most of the time.
Aww how old is he? Re you feeling the pressure?
12. Old enough to leave for an hour or so if we need to go somewhere together, but not be be alone all day 4 or 5 days a week while his mother and stepfather are at work. His father (our son) lives with us but is working 3 - 4 days a week and is on call on the other 1 or 2 so he is only around in the evening and on weekends to engage with his son.