NEW HOUSEKEEPER COMING
eye need your help. I am going to interview male & female housekepper.
Will ask that they come every other week, I have a one bedroom apartment
with bath & kitchen ( side note: I have a large photo gallery of pictures of my
clothing optional travel trips mostly nude in two rooms )
I will have my regular street clothes on for the interviews
How do I share with them that I am a AANR nudust ?
Are you planning on being in when they are cleaning, and if so would you want to be naked? If not then not sure any mention of your naturism is needed. Let them have a good look round at the interview and if they say anything about the photos then discuss, otherwise keep quiet. What you do when they arent there is none of their business.
If they turn down the job then maybe they saw the photos and took objection to them. If so no great loss.
How do I share with them that I am a AANR nudust ?
Show them your AANR membership card.
An interview is usually an information sharing type meeting. They'll be wanting to know who they're working for and what, exactly, is expected of them. Among other things, you might tell them they'll probably run across nude photos and just show them your card. That may be the end of the interview or it may not. If they say "No way" and get up and leave, so be it. Or, they may be ok with photos but have questions about your state of dress/undress while they're working. You can take it from there.
I would think that if they are a legit and professional business they would be more about the job then you personal life. Stop and think how many other ways could they be offended in your home. They may be more judgemental on how you upkeep your house between visits. Maybe nik naks upset them. Cleaning them is tedious you know. Is your pic on the wall any different than a nude piece of art in the home. Im sure it may be moreso a conversation piece between them then a mention to you. I wouldn't say though because they accepted your pics that they would accept your actual being nude around them.
Like others here I have a housekeeper every two weeks. First of all I only interview candidates recommended by friends and or someone I trust their opinions. I've discussed this issue with some of them and come up with this.
The important part of deciding on someone is "Are they willing to do what you want done?", Will they be dependable in showing up on their appointed scheduled time? Once I come to the conclusion that they are viable I bring up other points. One of which is nudity.
I am not nude all the time around the house so I explain to the person before I agree to hire them that they can expect me to once in a while to be swimming nude in the pool, I will change clothes occasionally when they are there. I may shower occasionally. I explain that I will not purposely be nude in front of them, but do expect it. I explain that I my nudity is not a sexual advance toward them. I do not expect them to be nude because I am, but if you want to skinny dip in my pool to relax go ahead.
I will be nude if it is convenient to what I am doing - it is my place of residence. If they agree we are one step closer. I avoid any nudity the first time they are there. But I do make it a point to be nude in front of her the second time. After that I will mention that I am going to take a shower. If she wishes to avoid my nudity she can work in another part of the house until I am done.
About half the time they would do just that, other times just continue working right there. I have stood in front of her and undressed as we conversed, with no sexual intent.
I have had a couple housekeepers who were also masseuses and they would come prepared for that and be compensated accordingly. I have had a couple affairs with the housekeeper, but that just doesn't work out in the long run.
Basically you hire a housekeeper for a certain function and expect to live your life as you normally would with certain attention to care.
The best advice is not to discuss it directly. Show them around and point out the art. If they are open to it they will mention it when they are comfortable. But the first few times I would be casually dressed, not nude. You dont want to make them think that your nudity is a suggestion.
Alternatively you could advertise specifically as a nudist so only those who are comfortable will apply. I would have a nanny cam or at least an audio recorder on while they are there to prevent misunderstandings and accusations later. Lots of people run around putting themselves in situations so they can sue.
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