Shy about nudity
hi there, i feel very shy about getting nude. i seem to struggle with the arousal part of it. i take my clothes off get semi turned on even if there is noboy there. then run like the wind
That is totally natural. Just cover it up when around people and the more often you are just nude your brain starts to realize it is nothing to prep launch for and it will happen less and less ofteb
I found that being amongst other nudists solved the problem. If it's a problem of body image, just look at the nudes around you. We come in all shapes and sizes. And if it's a problem with arousal - that's natural. Just cover it until it subsides. It will be less likely once you get used to being naked, unless there is a sexual stimulus.
Some people prefer the nude beach; but I think the C/O resort is the best place to "ease into it." Typically nudity is only required inside the pool area; so hanging out with a sarong outside and gradually "acclimating" is a good way to go.
My first wife had body acceptance issues and was really shy about being seen naked. The C/O resort allowed her to keep her sarong on and try nudity at her own pace, away from the crowd.
Eventually and over several trips, it was interacting with nudist women that "did the trick." They were comfortable chatting nude with her; even though she was herself "wrapped up" in her sarong. Being around these confident women - with different ages and body types - made her less afraid of being judged. And so one day she felt safe and secure enough to finally drop the sarong in front of them.
So if you're a woman, just hanging out around nudist women will provide you with all the encouragement you need. And that is more easily found at the nudist resort.
hi there, i feel very shy about getting nude. i seem to struggle with the arousal part of it. i take my clothes off get semi turned on even if there is noboy there. then run like the wind
The more you do it, the more normal it will become, and the problem will go away
When I went nude for the first time, I was very shy too, but don't worry. After 10 minutes to be nude you do not the experience anymore that you are nude, when you are in company of other nude people. My first experience was 10 years ago on a naturist campground in the Czech Republic.
I was shy at first but as I began to allow myself to challenge my insecurities and just go for it, I felt a measure of liberation that works cannot give True Justice to. So as I respect your shyness I encourage you look those insecurities in the eyes and tell them just watch me and go for it and you'll feel so much better for doing so.
Respectfully,
J.R. (Barman81)
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