Nude massage and male arousal
Id love to hear your thoughts on nude massage. I assume this is often without a towel and without any real requirement for modesty.
Being massaged while naked is so much better - there is no fabric in the way of your butt so the leg and glutes can be properly worked.
What about when men turn over? I regularly get an erection when Im massaged. Is that an issue for the masseuse? Ive only once been asked if I wanted my arousal dealt with (no it wasnt a happy ending place) which was because the masseuse and I had been flirting constantly all session... so it worked out well and we had dinner later that week.
Does anyone else find nude massaging arousing, and how do you deal with that as a male, or as a female masseuse?
I am missing out haha, only ever had a one on one massage exchange. Main reasons is my wife doesn't find the time for massage, although does really enjoy it when she stops and slows down enough for me to catch her. She isn't a nudist either and isn't very comfortable with nudity outside of our bedroom or bathroom.
Long story short is she appreciates me, understands I have things I am interested in and supports me to do my own thing also. So I massage as a single.
I've had a couple of nude messages, both of them were on a nude beach. The young lady, both times, set up her table and had me lie on my stomach. Now understand, this is a small nude beach, everybody's naked except for the masseuse. Then she puts a sheet over me WTF?? When I turned over the wind caught the sheet and that wasn't her only surprise, which I quickly controlled. Fortunately the breeze and my foot kept the sheet off for the remainder.
Some years back I was at a nudist massage where I had often been where both are always nude. When the guy ( Paul) said I am training a new masseur would you mind if he ( John) joins us? I was surprised but not put out. Why not more hands the better I said. He left the room and returned with John who was nude and to my surprise a little aroused I must say. The massage started with me on my tummy Paul staring on my shoulder John on my feet. Both working up to my bottom where extra attention was paid by both working oil into my bottom crack fingers probing and working causing me to become aroused. Time to turn over there was no hiding my arousal. The guys went to work started at each end as before working to the middle.To have two sets of hands was the best with the massage ending very happy for all.
As a fully trained and qualified therapist I have performed massages to both genders draped and nude over the years.
Yes some people do get aroused both males and females even though it is easier to tell with males, It is part of the massage, not every massage of course! and how you deal with it as a therapist is up to you and the client, mind you as part of the training here in Australia a profesional code of conduct you leave it alone or cover it and keep going with the massage. I licensed business can get a large fine and be closed down for doing anything other than massage, but of course there is those places and therapist who will and do cater for that clientele. For the most part it is just because the massage feels so good and the blood is flowing so of course the blood flow is going to go to that area.
Me personally I do a lot of deep tissue work because of my strength so it is not always a great soft sensual style that will encourage arousal from some of my clients, all depends on the style/type of session they want, an aroused member doesn't scare me, it shows I am doing a good job after all doesn't it :-)
I have now had many massage exchanges, not as a couple, but just one to one. Some have be great / good, a couple were just okay or not good, then a few with the same lady and they were amazing. Still looking for a regular massage partner in the Liverpool /Cheshire area in the UK.
Just my two cents worth. I've gotten massages for the past 20 years or so. By far, most have been with the large chain therapists where I've always been nude, but always draped, usually with a sheet and blanket even when I've requested less. One of the chains had a class action for sexual abuse of customers but I was not one of them. Of those not with the large chains, several were with female therapists and they were always clothed, even when I had the chance to be undraped.
I'll say here that most of my massages were therapeudic versus for pleasure for chronic sore muscles and tightness. So, onto the last class of massages; those I expected and anticipated were sensual in nature. All were done by males, most of them also nude and most with mutual touching allowed and encouraged. While these massages didn't do that much for my muscle tension, they did address another area of my life that was missing the touches necessary to be happy and healthy.
The one erection I had with a clothed female was actually at a massage school in Las Vegas. Their draping was a very thin sheet and only a hand towel over the buttocks/genitals. The student was a middle aged woman that was not afraid to touch and work the glutes hand to flesh. Her movements were enough to elicit an erection that lasted until I turned from my stomach to my back. She did not provide a happy ending but she did offer an appreciate squeeze when she placed the small hand towel over my erection. 'Nuf said, have fun and enjoy whatever the experience provides you :-)
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