An issue is that it can be our own reactions to being seen that train the next generation. It Your child walks in and sees dady with a boner and Daddy quickly covers up, what is the message? The same with almost anything, if you are changing and some walks in and sees you nude and you dash for the towel, the message is clear, your body should not be seen. So what to do. Well practice an explanation that works for you. I once used "Yes it does that, it will go away soon". Sound relaxed, be relaxed, don't rush to cover, just dress normally, after all you did not go out of your way to be seen, so those who look on you should accept or not look. the body is beautiful be it with a shrivilled tiny penis or a hard one trying to poke some ones eye out. Love it all, love yourself.
Steve
Same about looking over the fence to see what you are doing by the neighbors. Dont look ! I wish people could relax about life on today. Its 9/11 today. Marie and I were on the nude beach in California this day so many years ago.
Freedom is something we need ! So many things have changed and not for the good of people. This is not as important as everything but where do we start to get better. Even women are having a hard time posting pictures of themselves with their legs apart. Why ? Its a nude body and its healthy to let air to the skin.
We as men know that we have this happen to us. And should be happy about it. With all the prostate surgeries going on now. And the fact that its very difficult to get a erection after. We all should be proud of them.
Love everything about this. It is so refreshing to see a group that is all for accepting erections. My boyfriend and I get them regularly and if were hanging out with another guy, I believe, that there is no judgment as it happens naturally, were men, its just what happens. There is no point in shaming it. Celebrate the erection
I agree. Sometimes they just pop up!
The woman who does my semi annual penis manzillian says it's common for men to have erections while being waxed. I did the last time and she let me go to the restroom to calm it down. She wasn't uncomfortable with it, as it doesn't mean you want sex
... she let me go to the restroom to calm it down. ...
"let" you, or suggested you might want to take care of your troublesome appendage in the restroom?She wasn't uncomfortable with it, as it doesn't mean you want sex
If she wasn't "uncomfortable" with your waving flagpole, most likely she would have said - Why don't you just knock the top off first, here and now. I understand it's just part of the natural uncontrollable process of being male?
If you're post puberty, erections don't just happen "naturally" - there is always a preceding stimulus, be it mental or physical.