First time
A few days ago, I went in for my first manzilian. It threw me off that she stayed in the room for me to strip down, so I was really nervous. Thought I would have time to calm things down before she saw me. She was great though, started going right away. She warned me when she knew it was in more sensitive areas. She asked about the crack, I decided to pass. She is moving away, so if I decided to keep doing it, I'll have to find another.
Hope you found someone else and carried on waxing. And hope you tried the crack, it's worth it!
Funny you say you needed to calm things down, mine is usually practically inverted at the start of a wax. My girl usually starts with my crack which gives things a chance to relax a little lol.
My first time was almost 3 years ago. Ive only been waxed by two different women First time was out of town. From the second time on, its been near where I live and with the same gal. Shes really cool and totally gets that I like to be nude. After my second or third visit with her, I dont believe I have worn anything except a shirt and shoes. Thats how I arrive and how I leave.