Nudist or fantasy/fiction forum
Seems the topics are being overrun by people desperate to acquire stairs and share stories that like fantasy/fiction and not actual real life nudist experiences. Sadly these stories under the pretense of being nudist are just opportunities to describe some sexual type of naked behavior.
Seems the forum is becoming a fantasy/fiction forum rather than a nudist forum
I have the feeling the worst is over, we are working on it, hihi. You have to search for the gold in the sand.
Yes, many home nudists who never have been at a nudist resort, or may be at the wrong ones bring up their phantasies. Also with the sexual liberalization we have now in the internet it is difficult to differentiate nudism from exhibitionism. If you watch chaturbate you have situations where the models behave like in nudism, but it is not nudism.
It could be because I avoid certain topics being discussed here in True Nudists - I'm not reading much of what this post is describing. Fiction can be fun to explore; the subset of fictional fantasy has a tendency to take off in sexual directions best left to elsewhere online than here. The topic is a valid one. If people interested in nudism and naturist information visit this website and all they find is a lot of topics related to sex, the reader/viewer will conclude the site is focused on that, not nudism. This weakens our message and helps the detractors who want to pigeonhole all nudists in with hedonism.
If a topic in here is clearly stated to be and meant to be fictional, I don't see the harm, as long as the writer keeps it in the naked places and not turn it into a pornographic romp. There's a lot of grey area between the two subjects in True Nudists - we are sexual beings. But it would be best to focus on what we are here for, not the sometimes side-effect of sexual intrigue.
I come from a time when there was little pornography available to the general population besides a few men's magazines featuring mostly well-photographed nude pictures -- views of the female form which today would be considered quite vanilla and boring to many -- with only some of the written articles and testimonials and advice columns going further down the road into sexuality. With the online availability of any and every kind of kinky sexual idea the mind can contemplate, I do wish this website could rise above. It would be best for our words to include more positive stories of nudism, our shared desire to be bare socially, moving our cause forward instead of falling headlong into sexual stereotypes too many people have about us.
I have the feeling the worst is over, we are working on it, hihi. You have to search for the gold in the sand.
I can only hope you are correct the intensity seems to ebb and flow but seems to now be a consistent fixture. When folks try to straddle the fence on the issue cite the inappropriateness of the sexual nature of the sexual "fictionalized"story request and the subsequent stories and so called account it provides fuel for the fire that you describe where nude model, and sexual cam and naked content creators come to define nudism in the minds of many if not most. This association with nudism has never benefited nudism at no time in history including the current time. One could credibility suggest it is the factor that shifted the tide of widespread nudism that had growing public acceptance to the diminishing marginalized experience that it is today.