Size shouldnt matter!
But it does to a lot of people. Not with just penis size either, Ive been told many times repeatedly that my size or shape should not play any role in my being a nudist and I appreciate the sentiment but it hasn't been an easy journey . After many discussions and sharing with other nudists like and unlike myself Ive finally gotten to a place where I feel comfortable Im my own skin. The old Small Penis Appreciation Group helped me in so many ways and really it and many of its members help open my mind and helped me accept myself as I am, an original work of art, perfect just as it is! That is why I started this group, to help provide a place for people to share and learn and support one another on their nudist journeys and hopefully come out feeling better or more comfortable and confident with themselves because of it! Do I still wish I was a bigger guy, Id be lying if I didnt admit to it but honestly Im cool with what Ive got now and love to hang out naked now even if Im not hanging all that much! Welcome to the group!!! I look forward to many forum posts and discussions and chatting with you all!
I can appreciate your comment and also agree with you for the most part. My point isnt jaded by pornstars with unusually proportioned penis though. I know what average is and understand that with any average there are measurements on both sides. I grew up on a swim team from age 5 to college and saw my friends and team mature and grow and a few of them could have been pornstars and most were average and a few smaller. I was always the smallest. My point for this post and this group is that some of us are small and although it shouldnt matter its still difficult for many to accept themselves as they are, myself included, but also to know that other unhung guys are out there and its perfectly okay to be a nudist and not to avoid it because of a small penis. It took me decades to realize and come to terms with that and if I can help another guy who wants to be nude but has reservations because of his penis size, Id like to help him like others helped me and prevent lost years of enjoying nudism/naturism for absolutely no reason! Its all about gaining a healthy perspective and just learning to love yourself as you are and not giving a shit what others think because 99% of the time when you think they are think about you, THEY ARENT! Love yourselves guys!
I can appreciate your comment and also agree with you for the most part. My point isnt jaded by pornstars with unusually proportioned penis though. I know what average is and understand that with any average there are measurements on both sides. I grew up on a swim team from age 5 to college and saw my friends and team mature and grow and a few of them could have been pornstars and most were average and a few smaller. I was always the smallest. My point for this post and this group is that some of us are small and although it shouldnt matter its still difficult for many to accept themselves as they are, myself included, but also to know that other unhung guys are out there and its perfectly okay to be a nudist and not to avoid it because of a small penis. It took me decades to realize and come to terms with that and if I can help another guy who wants to be nude but has reservations because of his penis size, Id like to help him like others helped me and prevent lost years of enjoying nudism/naturism for absolutely no reason! Its all about gaining a healthy perspective and just learning to love yourself as you are and not giving a shit what others think because 99% of the time whe. You think they are think of you, THEY ARENT! Love yourselves guys!
Yep! Totally relate to this comment, coming to terms with ones body doesnt always come easy for some.. for some people its a difficult journey. Love yourself guys!
The interesting thing about the statue of David is that in those days large penises were associated with less desirable characteristics and smaller ones were desired more, particularly in art etc. So David has purposefully been made with a small penis. Penis size mattered then for different reasons, it's easy to say it shouldn't matter but it's ingrained in our culture so isn't going away. The thing to realise is that everything is skewed and you need to experience the reality to understand that. Putting yourself out there and getting naked with other people makes you see that most guys are not that big, and many are on the small end of average or smaller. Ive just got back from a swim and after I was showering with 5 other guys, all of whom were my size or smaller, and no one cared. I noticed we all had small penises and I'm sure they did too. (I also noted that I was the only circumcised guy but that's another thing). We can't help the fact that penis size is a thing, but we can decide how we react to that and what our reality is . And you only know the reality by experiencing it.
I can appreciate your comment and also agree with you for the most part. My point isnt jaded by pornstars with unusually proportioned penis though. I know what average is and understand that with any average there are measurements on both sides. I grew up on a swim team from age 5 to college and saw my friends and team mature and grow and a few of them could have been pornstars and most were average and a few smaller. I was always the smallest. My point for this post and this group is that some of us are small and although it shouldnt matter its still difficult for many to accept themselves as they are, myself included, but also to know that other unhung guys are out there and its perfectly okay to be a nudist and not to avoid it because of a small penis. It took me decades to realize and come to terms with that and if I can help another guy who wants to be nude but has reservations because of his penis size, Id like to help him like others helped me and prevent lost years of enjoying nudism/naturism for absolutely no reason! Its all about gaining a healthy perspective and just learning to love yourself as you are and not giving a shit what others think because 99% of the time whe. You think they are think of you, THEY ARENT! Love yourselves guys!
Anyone can be a porn star. I have 100% rejected the so called standard because I have known so many over the years and unfortunately among the most insecure lonely and anguished men in this world. Not all. But it breaks my heart.
I'd like to argue that "Goldilocks size" matters, but only for that which we can control. More specifically fitness and lifestyle matter, and it's not any proportions or looks I'm referring to. Balance matters, not too much, not too little. Fitness matters because it gives us greater mobility, flexibility and vitality. I have friends who have gotten obese and have to get out of their car backwards and also need to hire others to do all of their yardwork. Sure they can afford good help and vehicles, but their quality of life is compromised with many decades left ahead.
Lifestyle matters because some compromise their digestive tracts at a young age from poor nutrition. Others sacrifice their wellness from destructive substance abuse or addictions. Given the severity of such issues, it's ridiculous to focus on something as mundane as penis or ear lobe size.
Size shouldn't matter. Size doesn't matter. Wellness and fitness does. There is no ideal to reach, it's Goldilocks, not too much, not too little. We all need to define wellness standards for ourselves based on our own beautiful quirkiness and then eat, move and be just right. It's our choices.
Oh hell yes that health matters more for more reasons than just size.
I new a guy that I met at a party. He did not want to get naked because he was so small. I convinced him to show me. Well he was had the smallest penis I had ever seen since being a boy.it was like he never hit puberty. My gland ring was a perfect size for a shaft ring for him. I made sure that he was ok with being that size. He got hard and it looked good, and he seemed to have fun later in the pool with all the other guys.
Being small is okay. The wife says I am the correct size for her pussy. I dont bottom out. The porn stars are just a big cock. Regular porn videos with regular people are better anyway. Thats what changed my attitude about gay sex. They made love like I did to the wife. It changed my life to enjoying men also.
I agree totally, being nude around others non-sexually penis size should be totally irrelevant and not an issue at all. I have a larger penis then average, someone else maybe has a smaller then average penis, but we are not here to measure our cocks, so why does any of that matter? Just be nude and be accepting of everyone as they are, isn't that the point?
I totally agree, Ive never been big in that department, but when i was in high school, i decided to organise life drawing at lunch (our school didnt have life drawing, i organised a small cover charge, made some money. That actually got other kids to model. i think that being small is better because it is less intimidating and it allowed others to think, hes not perfect, i can get nude too
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