To me it seems like a sexual encounter more than anything, handling each others genitals, strangers too. Call me a prude if you want but I don't think it's appropriate at a public CO beach. I've had two unusual encounters at a beach I go regarding piercings. A guy walked past me to go swimming, I was sitting in the shallows, it was hot. He said hello, I asked did his piercing hurt when he had it done (I had been thinking of getting one), we talked a bit and went separate ways. Another day a different guy saw me look at his piercing, he offered to go into the dunes so I could get a closer look, I declined and walked on. I guess he is like lots of men who proposition women at every opportunity, and some do.
These beaches were legalised for us to be able to swim, get sun and walk the beach naked if we want. At too many of our legal CO beaches sex happens in the dunes and it sometimes causes complaints to authorities from passers by. Those passers by know they are on a CO beach usually and accept that they will see nude people there, sadly mostly men these days, but I'm guessing they don't usually expect to see sexual encounters.
I don't care what people do at home or in each others homes were everyone is a consulting adult. I love being nude at the beach too but don't believe the beaches should be used for sex. My concern is that this behaviour will get our CO beaches closed.
What people do and wear in private is indeed their own business. However, some people seem intent on bringing their private sexual lives into the public sphere and use clothing optional beaches as a venue and excuse for that. They make up all kinds of excuses to justify this action. The resulting impact for genuine nudists seems to be of no consequence to them.
StevieLorna wrote:Woodsman thanks for taking on the social experiment, but its just like an underwire bra?
I didn't say anything about an underwire bra. I meant the sort of bra that women sometimes use in athletics. Here in the US we call that a sports bra. It's mainly elastic, no wires needed.
StevieLorna wrote:If someone is looking to shut down a naturist beach they can come to this website and say here is the evidence, point directly to the interesting experience and say this is whats happening.
I doubt that this website would serve as any reliable indication of nudist behavior. There's no real filter between fact and fantasy, as there is in the more carefully vetted web sites run by naturist organizations.
If "somebody" really thinks that we're representative of true nudism, despite the name of the site, he should be sat down and have it explained to him what the Internet is.
StevieLorna wrote:If someone is looking to shut down a naturist beach they can come to this website and say here is the evidence, point directly to the interesting experience and say this is whats happening.
I doubt that this website would serve as any reliable indication of nudist behavior. There's no real filter between fact and fantasy, as there is in the more carefully vetted web sites run by naturist organizations.
If "somebody" really thinks that we're representative of true nudism, despite the name of the site, he should be sat down and have it explained to him what the Internet is.
StevieLorna wrote:Woodsman thanks for taking on the social experiment, but its just like an underwire bra?I didn't say anything about an underwire bra. I meant the sort of bra that women sometimes use in athletics. Here in the US we call that a sports bra. It's mainly elastic, no wires needed.
Apologies Woodsman yes, you said support bra not underwire.
The point I was trying to make as you were indulging the social experiment with the cock ring at your weekend naturist camp out, is
While you were supporting your cock and balls, how many of the nudist ladies were wearing support bras?
StevieLorna wrote:While you were supporting your cock and balls, how many of the nudist ladies were wearing support bras?
That weekend, none. But I have seen them wear them while playing tennis or while jogging.
My feeling is: whatever makes you comfortable is legit. That includes glasses, sunglasses, and sandals too. I also wear a hat sometimes, when I want to protect my balding head from the sun, even if I'm not wearing anything else.
And sunscreen, of course.
He is telling you he is down for fun.
Whatever you think of the merits of this statement its probably the most honest answer weve had.
Extrapolating that to woodsmans response,
Perhaps wearing sunglasses means you are down for fun.
Oiling up your naked body with sunscreen can only mean you are down for fun times.
Sandals. with your toes showing, thats a fetish of fun for someone.
And of course, every lady in a bra.. yip that means they are well down for some fun with anyone in a cock ring.
Equating wearing a hat to wearing a cock ring is legitimising the down for fun crowd who will end up ruining nudism with their selfish attitude.