It sounds to me like you're looking to explore male connections of all kinds without feeling like you're looking for something specific. Just seeing where it leads, but maybe you don't have any close male bonds. Specifically with older men.

I get that. I've often felt the same way in that most of my friendships, male and otherwise have very specific boundaries that don't leave room for deeper connection. Sometimes a new person you meet offers that opportunity more than existing friends.

I've been looking for connections on TN that I can connect with in person that want to share space nude without the expectation of sexual activity. At the same time, I don't want to specifically set that boundary so much as I want friendships based on a connection beyond that.

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I can count the number of connections I've been seeking like that on one hand. And mostly with guys I've met in person before I knew them online. It would be nice to have a friend or friends nearby who want to hang naked, watch movies or sports, play games or just chat. In the nude. And if tension needs an outlet, we don't need to shy away from it. We can have fun one way and then another and still hang out without being awkward.

That's the dream, anyhow.

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