Non nude spouse
No doubt this topic has been discussed but I may have missed it. I have been a member here for a few years but seldom check in. Lately, I got serious and got certified and plan to extend my activities beyond at home nudist. A few years ago I had a platonic female adventure buddy for outings and nude swim events. My wife knew her and gave her blessings to Velvet. About 5 years ago, we lost Velvet to cancer. Three years ago spouse and I retired and moved to Arizona. I was in Tucson Thursday and took a ride to Mira Vista Resort and got a quick tour. I liked what I saw. Next, I plan to get a day pass for a Saturday. If all goes well I hope to book a room for a weekend. My experience has been the guy with no partner gets ignored by couples. I won't be there to hustle anyone. I just want to mingle and enjoy time with others.
Anyone care to share your thoughts? Once at a place in Idaho I spent a weekend in a cabin. The only conversation I had was in the hot tub. It was boring as hell. I had a book to pass the time.
Resorts are private businesses who can target and even discriminate against clientele. As such, they vary a great deal in their policies. Here in the Midwest it's common to not allow single males unaccompanied by a female escort. I'd call ahead to whatever place you're considering to see what their policies are and how welcoming they sound to you. Don't be too surprised if they tell you you won't be allowed in or discourage you from visiting.
Resorts are private businesses who can target and even discriminate against clientele. As such, they vary a great deal in their policies. Here in the Midwest it's common to not allow single males unaccompanied by a female escort. I'd call ahead to whatever place you're considering to see what their policies are and how welcoming they sound to you. Don't be too surprised if they tell you you won't be allowed in or discourage you from visiting.
I dont think you properly read the OPs post.
He was given a tour and was able to book as a single man. The resort has no problem with him.
Hes asking how he as a single will be treated, and as hes been part of a couple previously, hell know how they tread the single males. Thats what he is worried about. Not about being allowed entry.
Id stick with a book. Naturists are generally friendly and welcoming, but people are there to relax, no one ever goes on holiday with the intention of spending time entertaining others.
Hi. I agree with StevieLorna. I will stick with a book and dont mind the people there if they will talk to you or not. You are there to hang out naked with fellow nudist as it is a nudist resort, so just enjoy that you are naked just like everyone else. I am going there today and as always, I am on my own. When I was there last Thursday, I had a conversation with two husbands. Just a short conversation and they introduce themselves to me. I think the way I see it, it goes both ways. It doesnt necessarily mean that because I am going there as a single person, people automatically thinks that I am there to pry on wives. I think the wives also doesnt want to initiate conversation as they dont want other people to think that they are flirting with me. On the other hand, the husband as well dont really want to be too friendly as well as they dont want their wives to think that they are into something as well. Only those that are very comfortable with their own skin and sexuality are the one that doesnt care at all what other people thinks.
As for me, I always carry a book and just enjoy the moment that I am naked and sunbathing. If people wants to talk to me, I accept that with an open arms and I will converse with them in a friendly manner. If they dont approach me, I dont really approach them. It is hard because you dont want to give the impression that you are too friendly or have an agenda. Especially on my part that this Ill be my 2nd time going there. I have to go there for a total of 3 times before I can apply to become a member no I wanted to become a member there so that I can use the gym freely and also have a place to go naked regularly without worrying anything.
Good luck bud and hopefully, we can meet there one of this days and we can talk just like normal people so we can give that impression that w r not perverts nor prying with their women lol
I have been to Mira Vista on a few occasions as a single male. It was in the winter time so not very busy but I was welcomed by everyone. Had conversations with couples, single women and other men. I did have a book as well but didnt get to read at all because people wanted to talk.
I have visited many resorts in different cities. I always call first to find out about single male acceptance. Then I show up with no expectations other than being nude and allow the experience to unfold.
If you can book a time when there are activities going on that you enjoy that would be another option. Seek out group activities like water volleyball if the have it. Those are good ways to get connected and have a more active enjoyment.
I think this level of comfort extends to regular everyday clothed encounters as well. Ive always noticed that people, women especially, couples, all treat me differently when Im with my girlfriend vs being alone. I think having a woman with you validates to other people that you arent a weirdo or predator.
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