RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

Being a bisexual that served in the Army and had plenty of straight men as friends and had been apart of some group of guys watching porn and masturbating that guys are looking at each other. There is at times a guy that is hung and everyone has a comment about the size of his penis.

That's either admiration, jealousy or they want to try it for size lol !! Even I know straight men get turned on seeing a guy/mate with a big fat hung dick.

It's a trigger effect, they want to see him shoot his load to see if it cums like a fountain, even straight men will pop their cocks when a hung mate blows his, hence the name trigger effect !

Straight guys don't just watch porn because they want to see the guy rutting his ass off, they wanna see the cumshot, which in turn makes them pop a nice load too. I have seen it too many times in porn films, when the guy is cumming in the video, so are the guys jerking off to the porn, it's hearing him grunt and moan that gets them off, not her screaming. The gutteral sound of another man ejaculating will make other men cum at the same time or not long after.

At then end of the day, a guys sexuality really has nothing to do with it, it's what you are comfortable with and how strong you are in your own sexuality and pushing boundaries. You don't have to be gay or Bi to enjoy another mans cock, think outside the box.

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RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

LOL, you "let" him touch your dick and put it in his face as a great gesture to help him get off lol, and when will you be admitting that you are a closet homosexual? Seriously what a complete load of rubbish or a made up story, clearly you are gay. Straight men DO NOT have gay guys play with their dicks and stick it in their face, talk about repressed sexuality.This is an absolute offense to gay men for you to say you "let" him do this when clearly you were directing the action to get off on some gay fantasy while pretending to be straight. Closet men like you disgust me because you use gay guys to get off but make out that you are doing something great to help them.STOP lying to yourself and everyone else and have the balls to admit the truth and step out of that closet.

Hey, the only person bull shitting anyone here is you with your words. No one has to be closet anything, and YES, putting your hard cock near or in a guys face or mouth does help them get off.

STRAIGHT men DO HAVE gay guys play with their dicks and enjoy oral happens, it all depends on how far either wants to or is prepared to go in a given sexual encounter.

I have met more than a few straight guys over the years and they are no different from gay guys when it comes to getting a blowjob and getting off.

What you are forgetting here or not even seeing is that gay men know how other men like their dicks sucked or jerked off, as men know what men like and want from jerking off and or oral sex, plus most gay guys swallow, which is always a deal breaker ! Not all women will.

So, your idea that this is fantasy is complete BS, you can be offended as much as you like for gay men, but there is one thing you have not done, and that is bother to ask any gay man on here if this is the case. You are assuming YOU are right when you are not. I have had my fair share of straight men, and take my word for it, it don't matter how straight they are, once you give a man a blowjob and jerked him to completion, he will always come back for more.

One thing you don't point out on your profile is whether you are straight, Bi or Gay ! So I/We have to assume you are straight. It seems the only repressed guy here is yourself as you are making such a song and dance about this. You DON'T know what you are talking about. Try reading the many opinion on here and opening that closed mind.

So cut the crap that this is an offence to gay guys, it's not, you just have no damn idea how the world works, even when the men are straight.

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RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

This post / thread just perfectly sums up the problems 'True Nudists' face!!!!If we are here. then it should be for our desire, love to live a naked lifestyle.....anything sexual should be left to private one to one chats!!!Just get a grip of yourselves!!!!

Oh, get over yourself !

As nudists we are all still sexual beings, that doesn't change, just because we like to take our clothes off and feel alive when nude. Yes, we get the "standard" of what is expected of us as nudists, but the point is, both elements are a part of each other and that is NOT going to change because someone states it should ! Think reality.

This male forum is for ANYONE to ask ANYTHING they want to, whether some like it or not, you don't control the forums, if you don't like the subject being discussed, I suggest you ignore it and read something else.

If you don't like the topic of discussion, leave it alone and go do something else, stop nagging because you don't agree with it.

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RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

Absolute rubbish, gay guys always think they can turn straight guys or that straight guys will jerk off with them, it is nothing more than an urban myth and wishful thinking. Truly straight men DO NOT jerk off with gay guys.

Oh you poor deluded man !

What's absolute rubbish is that you have obviously not read any of the comments to this topic !

It has F@@K ALL to do with gay men wanting to turn straights to the dark side, how narrow minded can one person be ?

Shows how much you think YOU know if you say it's an urban myth or wishful thinking, I am talking from experience here when I tell you that STRAIGHT men will and DO jerk gay men off and vice versa, straight guys love getting blown by a gay guy because we do a f@@king good job of it and most of us will swallow that huge hot load we receive. That alone gets a straight man off. The biggest part is about respecting the boundaries of each other, also straight men love getting their tight sphincters rimmed, they can't ride your tongue hard enough once they have had that done the first time.

So with all due respect, either shut up or read all the comments and be more open minded. You prattling on that is doesn't happen is bullshit, I and many others know it does, it's about bonding, mutual respect and pleasure, it has fuck all to do with trying to turn anyone gay. That's too hard a bloody job to even attempt.

I hope to god, no gay man ever finds you attractive enough to mutually jerk off with you, as he's going to be sorely disappointed and pissed off. If a gay guy thinks your cute, take the compliment and walk away. Just don't say another word.

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RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

LOL You are NOT straight, seriously be true to yourself and step out of that closet.

Why don't you try stepping into your closet ? Too afraid of what you might find out about yourself.

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RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

You place limits on yourself, and labels. I grew up in a time when you were gay or. straight, and if you were bi, you were ostracized for not picking sides. I much prefer youth today, who are more open, and less defined by labels. Have you ever noticed that when you have an idea, you may be uncomfortable with it at first, but after a while, you think about it more, and it's like you are opening your mind to the idea, and then one day, it happens and you are not as closed to it as you once were?Look - we all change. We are human beings at the end of the day. You decide how open you want to be. Since we've moved to a more conservative approach, as example in gym locker rooms with segregated showers, walls, and doors for privacy, less common nudity etc, it has affected how open we are. We are getting away form touch, and intimate moments, that matter. Boners are a normal reaction. I love to give a long naked hug to my mates. They often want to break away quickly. I stay there, holding them, unapologetic about the intimacy and blood flow reaction. You are experiencing a human reaction. It's not a position of shame.You may decide one day that a mouth is just a mouth, and if it's a guy or gal, it won't really matter, it's how it feels that counts. Life is an experience, and I encourage you to be open with other human beings. You decide how you react, how you limit yourself or how you reach your total potential to live your best life without shame.Those are my thoughts.

Perfectly put and worded, lets hope he bothers to read your prophetic words. One of, if not the best replies to this thread I have read.

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RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

NO, guys do not change their basic sexuality EVER and this whole BS of I'll jerk off with guys but I'm not gay is a total and complete insult to gay men. The original poster who said he would place his dick in the gay guy's face to "help him get off". Seriously a closeted man pretending to help his poor gay mate that he feels so sorry for so he is allowing the guy to feel his dick.This is absolute garbage, the guy being so generous to "help" his friend get off is gay, I don't care if he's been married to a woman for 40 years he is gay and simply unable to accept his sexuality. I know many straight men and they would never jerk off or play around with guys. The bottom line is that straight men do not get naked and play around with other men, if you are doing this you are gay.As a gay man I find this whole attitude of so called straight men helping out their pathetic gay friends is incredibly insulting and I have seen it many times. Like the guy I met at a club while on his knees repeatedly telling me he was not gay, that his wife was out of town and he needed relief lol talk about totally delusional and so far in the closet it is not funny.Accept if you are naked and playing around with other men you are NOT straight and nothing in this world will convince me otherwise.

Oh hunny, get the F over your ego and wake up ! Oh my, so, you finally say your a gay man, sorry darling, but you are the one full of crap related to this thread.

Of course you are the Psychologist we all need to put us on the path of your personal knowledge and thoughts, for a homo hunny, it sounds like you have led a very sheltered life. Men, can be as straight as an American Road, but that doesn't stop the fact for some of them that they crave some cock and enjoy an hot, hard fuck, it still DOESN'T make them a raving homo. It's a need they have than has to be dealt with on occasion. If the straight men didn't like getting fucked, he wouldn't have a raging boner would he when getting his ass rutted to within an inch of it's life.

What's with the acting so offended by straight and gay guys getting it on together ? People may have closets, but it don't mean they need to stay in theirs all the time, it's good and great to see what's in the next one ! Perhaps it's something you really need to try to see if you like it. Or is this because you have never been approached by others in a sexual way, whether they were gay, straight or Bi ? Sorry, but there is something off with your idea of what YOU think it right and wrong.

I am a gay man, so any comments I have typed to you with regards to your words are all based on my almost 60 years of life and them that I have been involved with, and be assured, there have been a lot of straight men in there. You can't tell me that when a guy is on his back and you are blowing the hardest and most firm erect cock you have touched that just because he is straight that he is not enjoying what I am doing to and for him, whether her jerks me off, plays with my ass or anything else, that when he gives forth his man juice that I have not given him the pleasure to reach that explosion.

Put simply I have given a straight bloke a blowjob and he's well and truly enjoyed it, so he's going home to the wife and kids, big deal, he just wanted to get off before going home, knowing that his wife won't do that for him, but a gay fella will, JUST for his pleasure of getting off in someone's mouth.

Do you see where I am going with this ? If you don't, I suggest you see a professional psychologist to open your mind up and see the world from many sides, not just your narrow view of it.

Sorry if I piss anyone off with my words here, but everyone that has responded to this thread knows what they are talking about, and agrees with the basics of it and mutual enjoyment, regardless of whether your a homo, straight bait or bi fuckable, this guy is so negative and ill informed as to how the real world works. It's quite rare to come across a gay man that thinks like this.

Sex is sex, whether it's mutual wanks, oral or even anal and that includes kissing another guy. One Don't have to be a fag to kiss a straight boy and for both to enjoy the roughness of said snogathon, good god, that's what a lot of us want and need, a good rough seeing to !!

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RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

The primal reality is that from time immemorial males bonded together while hunting, fishing, and foraging etc. As soon as a boy was old enough and strong enough to run etc he joined the men and learned and grew among them. Older males taught younger males essential survival skills as well as the inherited wisdom and life skills developed over millennia.

As is normal and seen today in all male scenarios bonding of all kinds between males was usual. That was central to the development of the great civilisations that are still foundational to civilised life. This is the primal foundation of what we are and how we are programmed and a need for male bonding is an intrinsic part of all males. And the truth is that this most fundamental primal male programming thats in our DNA exemplifies the male at his most beautiful and noble.

So those who are angry that other males can bond freely together and who want to limit other peoples enjoyment with excessively vocal disapproval based in unnatural puritanical notions are in fact the ones who are in denial of nature, and the nature of being male.

Why not live and let love?

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RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

Why not live and let love?
Amen!

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