Unexpected support !
Hello every1 from Athens, Greece !
Medium penis here, around 4cm flaccid and 15cm when fully erect. (sorry, Americans, you will have to do the conversion to inches)
BUT it has always been the WELL endowed men who have shown me the most appreciation for my penis and how to be fully accepting of my body ! All huge guys I have met in friendly or romantic situations have been absolute sweethearts and incredibly accepting... in all ways!
Which I find surprising, and awesome. They made me realise we are much more than our size down there.
Any other small/medium penis guys here who have had similar experiences ? Large penis guys, what are your thoughts ?
You are definitely on the well endowed side of the spectrum. How often have you tried to bond with another dude who's equally well endowed. Maybe it's a fear of the competition or you want to be perceived as more dominant or manly with your extra large penis.
I don't really think 15cm is small especially since 5.5" is the average sized penis and you're almost 6". I think we can all learn from each other about our penises and it isn't something that we can really change so we need to play with the hand that we're dealt and support each other in our various insecurities about our penises.
Well, you definitely have me "outgunned" as you put it. I have sent you a couple messages with no replies at all. One just to thank you for adding me as a new nudist friend and then another just to see if you were open for a couple questions about being so well endowed. I also think I complimented you on a pic or two and definitely liked several of them. Not one response to anything. I don't really think of this as a hook up type site so I hope your weren't thinking that was my intentions. I read way more sexual comments about your pics than actual compliments about your very healthy penis. Just curious here.
Well, you definitely have me "outgunned" as you put it. I have sent you a couple messages with no replies at all. One just to thank you for adding me as a new nudist friend and then another just to see if you were open for a couple questions about being so well endowed. I also think I complimented you on a pic or two and definitely liked several of them. Not one response to anything. I don't really think of this as a hook up type site so I hope your weren't thinking that was my intentions. I read way more sexual comments about your pics than actual compliments about your very healthy penis. Just curious here.
I always like to offer the following information on cocks. Global average erect is 5.5 to 6.5 and the range is the margin of error meaning the statistics are variable and unreliable in many parts which gives this range of possibilities lowest to highest average size. The average depth of a woman's cervix is 0.5 to 1 inch LESS than the average erection size. Average means 49.9% are larger and 49.9% are smaller. One percent of men are over 7 inches. A fraction of one percent are over 8. The researchers who do this scientifically have never measured over 10 and claim just under is the largest recorded with standard and repeated measurements which include the top length and bottom or side to side when there's a curvature to the urethra and then averaged because the larger curve will give you a much longer measure but... the shorter one will be much shorter. Girth has similar features for the most uniform one is sufficient for the thicker base tapering to the head three at the glans base and midway are averaged. They ask what the owner thinks he is and what he thinks average is by putting himself on a penis in a visual range and then choosing average. We underestimate ourselves by over an inch even with the pornstars giving wildly inflated measurements and the guys who lie. It's still nothing near significant. We are also picking one or two inches over the average as a whole. Men 7 or up are bigger than almost all women are deep and for the vast majority that's painful and undesirable.
Despite rumours and porn men aren't much different in their depth given the sigmoid colon is usually the point at which its not comfortable for most. Deep throat either sex is a thing on porn but it is not anything most guys or gals have interest in. Those who do bless you. So all of this is to say that almost every guy who's hung up on size is doing it for himself and against his own best interests. I've been there. We all have because that is the way we are socialized amongst ourselves. Turns out it's not realistic or helpful. And yeah I admire a large and impressive cock too. But I also know that men who are outside the range huge tend to have deep insecurities about the intentions of partners who are often unabashedly open about their perception that it's not a person just a huge cock they can enjoy. This is obviously the most common in the upper size ranges compared to average size and most of the average guys never experience it. It's not fun once and definitely not fun the 49th time. All to say we are all fundamentally vulnerable and we all experience both positive and negative effects of having a cock no matter what size. And the majority of possible people to share it with generally like cock period and won't be too burdensome about size. Of all possible size issues too big is by far number one.
'So all of this is to say that almost every guy who's hung up on size is doing it for himself and against his own best interests.'
Love this. You're right, size preference is all about how the owner sees themselves. Even people who 'require' a certain size on a partner are really just revealing their own insecurities about themselves. Having a full grown penis, which all mature adult men have, is the benchmark for manhood, regardless of size. Even a small penis on an adult man is obviously fully grown. That's how I see it. Some people like to assign qualities to different sizes and I don't think there's necessarily anything wrong with that at it's core. But it's good to keep perspective and remember that lots of people are not too interested in penis size. I chat on cam in the chat room sometimes, and you can see when someone opens your cam to view it, and you can see when they close it. I'd say almost a full half of the people who open my cam, they close it after a few seconds and don't return. Certainly it's not about my size every time, but obviously overlarge size is not enough to keep them viewing. I like to remind myself of that to keep good perspective on things. I try to share this info when I can with men who want to relate and understand the experience and insight we can all offer each other on this subject. We're all full grown mature men here and penis size can still be a touchy issue for us. We should be breaking the ice and relating to each other more about this issue I think. I am always happy to share my limited insight with anyone who wants to discuss it further.
Yes and some people are very much uninterested in bigger penises. Some like to say 'oh everyone likes it big'... which is just projection. From my experience chatting on cam here, it's nice to know that it's actually NOT a universal desire. Far from it I think.
This is a great read. Many of you had made some good points. I arm often intimidated by the "larger " penises than mine. I'm only around 5.5 hard and I won't even say how small it is when flaccid. But reading this is helpful and reassuring.
Thanks guys
Hello men, I was lucky to be given an 8 (20)cm solid penis. I have always preferred men with a smaller penis. It seems that are not there to show off, and would rather be connected and in the moment. Just my experience,. Last year (coincidentally after I got covid) my penis developed Peronies Condition, meaning it shrunk and developed a bend. Im not concerned about the new shape and size as we are different anyway but The strangest part of it is, is that i now have a differentpenis and have to learn how to use it and love is nurture it, after all a mans penis is his best friend. Just an FYI Peronies Condition is very common but maybe men arent comfortable talking about it. Thanks and cheers, Christopher
Hello men, I was lucky to be given an 8 (20)cm solid penis. I have always preferred men with a smaller penis. It seems that are not there to show off, and would rather be connected and in the moment. Just my experience,. Last year (coincidentally after I got covid) my penis developed Peronies Condition, meaning it shrunk and developed a bend. Im not concerned about the new shape and size as we are different anyway but The strangest part of it is, is that i now have a differentpenis and have to learn how to use it and love is nurture it, after all a mans penis is his best friend. Just an FYI Peronies Condition is very common but maybe men arent comfortable talking about it. Thanks and cheers, Christopher
Thank you for the post and I wish you a good and speedy recovery from the disease. There is an assumption that you have already done so, but you have been consulting a professional about it, correct? I have read that there are things that can be done to correct the situation by doctors but these things need to be done in a timely manner, so if you have resigned yourself to just learn to live with it before being properly assessed by a specialist, don't wait any longer. Yes, a rather common ailment - if you trust Wiki, anywhere from 1-20% of men, wow! Your words about becoming comfortable with your new penile situation is commendable.
Thank you for not trying to connect this condition from which you are suffering to having first contracted the coronavirus. There's already a tremendous amount of disinformation out there about side effects like enlarged balls and other idiotic, unhelpful crap. Coincidence does not mean connection - somewhere along the way, the susceptible population has read and then believed every ridiculous idea, then tweeted & repeated it until a cock-eyed politician decides there's profit or power to get from saying it's fact.
With the prevalence of the malady in society (but also its stigma due to the unfortunate 'embarrassment factor' involved), it would be very healthy for this website to have a group or two for discussing it openly. There doesn't seem to be such a thing in here after a quick search - maybe this is your chance to begin one, Christopher?
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