Chat about Small penis...shame or ????
I am a Big guy with tiny willy- would love to chat with ladies or guys. especially ladies with dom streak.
STATS- Big guy 6'7" and 294- football player with years of locker room embarrassment...
Lifelong athlete and professional ( with women in locker then)
hard under 4.5" soft about 1.25" Big balls too
so my balls and body make it tiny...
It used to be a shameful thing for me growing up. It wasnt until I got into my 30s that I started to care less what other people thought. I was still very shy about it and rarely let anyone but lovers see me undressed. Ive always enjoyed communal showers and locker rooms not for the views but for feeling a sense of doing something that other guys do without even giving it much thought, being seen naked. Slowly I got more and more comfortable and noticed that not many guys took notice of me. The nudist in me became more aware of my enjoyment being naked and seen and just not caring. I had seen other confident men unhung men rarely but occasionally enough that I began to envy them and wished to be as confident as they were. Only way to do that was to kick the self shaming to the curb and just learn to accept that I am who I am, small dick and all. Sure I wish it was bigger but it never will nor is it important. Im so glad I was able to make that journey mentally, became a naturist/nudist and hopefully help others to realize the same thing or just be seen and maybe a role model for another smaller guys to help him gain his own self confidence and acceptance!
You are right, so often it's in your head with the locker room and shower nudity. People may notice but even if they do they probably don't care. Worst case you make someone feel good about themselves. So what?
It wasn't in my head initially, it was quite real as I got made fun of for my lack of manhood at school and then also after my circumcision due to a tight foreskin. Kids are cruel, and whilst the teasing didn't last long it took me a while to get over it and be comfortable putting myself in those situations. When I did I mainly enjoyed the sense of doing something others found normal, proving to myself that I could do it too and be comfortable with it. I then started to enjoy the sense of liberation that just being naked with other people can bring, and the sense of peace with my own perceived imperfections. When you start to realise that being naked with others can feel very normal you are doing pretty well!
Kids can be mean for sure. I was teased/bullied for a lot of reasons. I much prefer people to be open about being nude, rather than focus on what they don't have. None of us had choices in that department, and we are all different. Naturism, for me is celebrating how unique each of us is and still appreciating others for who they are. A body positive attitude. I find it brings people from the fringe into the centre.
You are right, so often it's in your head with the locker room and shower nudity. People may notice but even if they do they probably don't care. Worst case you make someone feel good about themselves. So what?It wasn't in my head initially, it was quite real as I got made fun of for my lack of manhood at school and then also after my circumcision due to a tight foreskin. Kids are cruel, and whilst the teasing didn't last long it took me a while to get over it and be comfortable putting myself in those situations. When I did I mainly enjoyed the sense of doing something others found normal, proving to myself that I could do it too and be comfortable with it. I then started to enjoy the sense of liberation that just being naked with other people can bring, and the sense of peace with my own perceived imperfections. When you start to realise that being naked with others can feel very normal you are doing pretty well!
Ive shared this with you before , I love your perspective on life and how positive you are! Your thoughts and contributions to this group are greatly appreciated. Every time I read something youve posted you always make me feel good about myself and reaffirm everything Ive grown to know about myself developing into a healthy minded naturist and shedding the shame I grew up with having a small penis and feeling lesser than my mates and other men because of it. Wish we lived closer to one another, I would love nothing more than to hang out naked with you and chat more about these sorts of things and get to know you better. Thank you for being you and contributing to this group!
Thank you all for your contributions and sharing.